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The World’s Best Flirting Technique

So, where to start? How about at the very beginning — the moment you lay eyes on a man you like, and want him to lay eyes back on you?

There you are, out for the night, in your dry-clean-only jeans, wearing perfume, looking hot, smelling edible. You’ve done and redone your hair so it looks the right kind of messy. And you see this guy you wouldn’t mind talking to. Say it’s a guy you’ve met once or twice in passing, and thought, “Why isn’t he at the parties I go to?” But here you are, at a party, and so is he. What’s the natural thing to do? Yeah, the natural thing to do is freeze.

Seriously. It’s natural. Don’t feel bad about it. He’s probably a little terrified too. So don’t let a little case of the nerves stop you from walking across the room and striking up a conversation. How, you ask? Hang on for a little story about the world’s best first-few-minutes flirting technique. It’s so good that it’s actually more of a flirting philosophy — one you should keep on using at every stage of your relationship, forever!

The year was 2000. I was with my friend Mark at a house party. The lights were low. The necklines were lower. We were feeling all self-conscious the way men tend to when they roll into a place together. You know what I’m talking about: Two guys walk into a bar or a party like some kind of lady-molesting team. They try to appear laid-back, or at least not desperate, as they awkwardly suck down their drinks, ogle women and don’t talk to each other.

These lame and transparent characters are called wingmen. Some people think the wingman is the second fiddle. Not true. If two single, straight guys are out together, they’re both wingmen.

Anyway, Mark was my wingman on this night, and I was his. I came back from the bathroom and saw a gorgeous woman chatting him up. I’d noticed her when she’d walked in, but I had quickly become distracted by another woman at the party whom I’d slept with once — and never called after. Should I do it again and hate myself? Not do it again and hate myself? I was too absorbed in this internal debate to actually put all that aside and approach someone new.

Ms. Gorgeous had blond, almost freakishly long hair. If you were a hair fetishist and you saw her at this party, you’d have had some kind of aneurysm. And there she was, talking to my wingman.

“She’s from Delaware,” Mark filled me in.

“You don’t say,” I replied.

“Look at that hair! Wouldn’t you think she should be from Sweden or something? Or at least Minnesota?”

Ms. Gorgeous laughed and put a hand on Mark’s arm. I still remember the dread I felt when I saw that hand touch his arm. You know a flirty touch when you see one. With that little brush of her long fingers, she became at once more desirable and more unattainable.

I figured that since she was after Mark — and I didn’t have a chance with her — I would at least try to make her laugh. And I spent the next half hour in that attempt, not wanting to piss off Mark, but curious whether she wanted me to stick around. Eventually, when I went to the bar area to get another drink, Ms. Gorgeous said she’d come with me. Yes! I was thinking. I got her! Little did I know it was she who’d gotten me.

Flash-forward three months to my bedroom: Ms. Gorgeous and I are a couple and will be for another glorious and tumultuous six months. We are naked in bed, eating take-out sushi and talking about the night we met. She looks at me slyly and says, “You know, I never wanted to talk to Mark in the first place. I was just trying to get to you.”

“Shut the f*** up!” I say.

“Are you kidding me that you didn’t know that?”

“All these months I thought you were harboring some unresolved attraction to Mark!” I say. “And all this time I’ve actually felt guilty around Mark, like I stole you from him.”

“It’s one of the greatest tricks of all time,” says Ms. Gorgeous. “Always hit on the wingman.”

Always hit on the wingman. It was so simple, so perfectly tailored to men’s innate competitiveness, so. genius! Ms. Gorgeous was right: The Wingman Technique is probably one of the most effective seduction tactics ever. Not convinced? Here are four reasons why:

1) Flirting works best when it feels effortless.
Imagine the man of your dreams hanging out at a party near the beer cooler with his friend Mark (work with me, it’s an exercise). Now imagine you have to go up and talk to him. How do you feel? Like you’re about to go skydiving only without that little backpack that has the parachute in it? Of course. You’re terrified. And damn it, now that you’ve let the moment pass, he’s talking to that chick in the Uggs. Or worse, he’s getting bored and making his way to the door.

Now imagine that Mr. Dreamboat Dude isn’t there. It’s just Mark. Mark in the mock turtleneck, with the bad sideburns. If you were forced to go talk to him, would you be nervous? I didn’t think so.

Think about it like a job interview. There’s a truism that your best interview is always for the job you don’t want. Flirting is the same way. Have you ever noticed how effortlessly cute you are when you’re talking to someone you’re not attracted to? How you’re always getting the wrong guy to eat out of your hand? The best part of the Wingman Technique is that you get to be effortlessly cute and confident and relaxed in front of the guy you actually like.

Hitting on the wingman is like interviewing for the job that you don’t want, with a recruiter for your dream job standing right there, very impressed.

Big caveat: There’s a difference between flirting and coming on like a starved velociraptor. I bet you can guess which side of the fence to stay on. Go easy on it. Be subtle. If you go overboard, you’ll seem desperate — or possibly nuts.

2) Men crave what they don’t have.
Here’s the second reason the Wingman Technique works. I call it the Cheeseburger Principle: When a guy sees his friend eating a cheeseburger, he instantly becomes hungry for a cheeseburger. Even if he just ate. Even if he’s trying really hard to be a vegetarian. Watching a woman flirt with his friend has the same effect. It makes a guy realize she is. no, not a piece of meat. but. worth getting hungry for.

3) Competition makes the heart beat harder.
This point is an extension of the Cheeseburger Principle: If men think something — or someone — is too easily attained, we worry we may be too good for it. Just like every other bad habit we have, this one surely goes back to our caveman days, when “getting the girl” meant chasing her other suitor 16 miles, pushing him down a hill and rendering him unconscious with a good bonk to the head. As exhilarating as it is to get close to a beautiful woman, it’s even more of a rush if we have to (figuratively) bonk someone over the head to claim that spot. More centered, together, enlightened dudes may be above this way of thinking. but sadly, most men aren’t there yet. So let your crush see you as a challenge to win over. When a guy gets the chance to talk to you, he should feel like it’s a big opportunity.

4) You never know, the wingman could actually be your man.
Suffice it to say that sometimes the guy who doesn’t knock your socks off the first time you lay eyes on him is the real catch.

Bottom line: This isn’t really about the wingman. It’s about power. Remember when I said hitting on the wingman is a flirting philosophy? Well, here’s that whole theory in a nutshell: When you hit on the wingman, you’re in control of the situation.

This post is excerpted from Always Hit On the Wingman: and 9 Other Secret Rules for Getting the Love Life You Want by Jake. Copyright 2012 Conde Nast. Published by Hyperion. Available wherever books are sold. All Rights Reserved.


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Dating Rules In 2016

The Question

Thanks for answering my question (if u even do). Ok so here s my deal. Last time I went on a date it was kind of underwhelming. I mean it sucked. At the end, I was really not feeling the idea of paying for the date, so I offered to split it, fully expecting my date to pitch a fit. She was totally into the idea, though. What the hell? Do I not understand anything about dating anymore or was she crazy? Who is expected to pay for dates these days?

The Answer

Here s what I think. Perhaps the best thing about dating in 2016 is that there are no absolute rules around dating etiquette. A first date can be a candlelit dinner or tacos eaten on the edge of a ditch. Sex can happen five dates in or five minutes in. Women are at liberty to pursue men without stigma (although, for me, that statement is usually theoretical). While our grandparents had to ask their potential paramour s parents for permission to even look at their children, our generation can do basically whatever consensual thing it pleases.

But also, perhaps the worst thing about dating in 2016 is that there are no absolute rules around etiquette. There are some tentative guidelines I d suggest, like no phone calls before marriage, but even that I would have you take with a grain of salt. Contemporary dating is a maelstrom of misunderstanding. It s like a crime procedural, but everyone is dyslexic and using defective instruments. We re trying to decode the feelings of people we want to bone without even knowing what those feelings would entail. Everybody wants to be as low-key cool as possible, which means nobody ever says, I would appreciate three texts a day. Texting, as a whole, is a hideous minefield, as you know. Compare how you would feel about pick me up at my place rather than would you like to pick me up at my place? I ve spent hours of my life counseling friends about whether they should end a message with a period or simply leave it unpunctuated. Cuz, y know, periods mean you re desperate. Obviously. Even the very basics, like whether a guy should pay for a first date, aren t fully established anymore. Which brings me to the point of this column: I think guys should pay for a first date, 100% of the time. Not because I think you re some kind of deadbeat f*ckboy if you don t. It s not a moral issue. I just feel that it s simply the best strategy.

I know what you re thinking. We re supposedly approaching the age of total gender fluidity, where women wear cargo culottes and men wear frilly skirts. Supposedly, classic masculinity is on the way out. along with its insistence on the man being both the boss and the ATM. And I encourage this, if for no other reason than I don t like paying for things. Also, maybe if I weren t required to be so masculine, I could stop hiding my love of Taylor Swift and pink faberge eggs.

So my suggestion that you should pay for the first date might seem antiquated or stupid. I agree. It is antiquated. Also stupid. But, as much as relations between the sexes have progressed, we re all still carrying around some of our parents baggage. Our heads are filled with decades-old ideas about what relationships should look like. This explains why some of us still quietly freak out when we re not married by 30, despite the fact that seemingly nobody does that anymore. This also explains the otherwise inexplicable fact that some young men still wear fedoras. Even if we think it s dumb, the very fact that the question should guys pay for the first date? is still lingering means that some people still think the answer is yes. (By the way: throw that fedora in the garbage immediately.)

Because we re dating in the age of no rules, dating strategy is all about making educated guesses about what won t piss off your latest Tinderella. And paying for your date is absolutely the safest thing to do, because a minority of women will expect it, and the vast majority of the rest will think it s sweet. 99% of women whose bills I ve paid were very happy I did so. In fact, paying for a date, since it s not the default anymore, makes you stick out. It s a nice gesture, rather than merely the following of a rule.

This has only backfired for me once, with a pretty graphic designer who, after I got the check while she was in the washroom, berated me for my anti-feminist ways. At length. We inexplicably made out before she stomped off in a huff. As it turns out, enraged graphic designers kiss good. Anyway, the day after, she actually left me a long voicemail letting me know that she was still mad for presuming she couldn t pay for beers herself. Somehow, I don t regret the fact that I didn t end up seeing her again.

So, pay for beers. Also, pay for condoms. Pay for brunch the next morning, if there is a next morning. If she s hung-over, buy her some Advil.

I realize that this advice is financially stressful for some, especially if you re interested in someone who expects front row opera tickets rather than four cans of PBR. I sympathize. There are lots of pretty rich people. I ve been there.

But let s be honest: if you can t afford to take a given girl out on a first date. that s probably not a girl you can afford dating. Your financial situation is going to come up eventually. Unless you re dating some sort of Bavarian princess who enjoys doting on male peasants making a mere six figure salary, find a place you can afford, and then afford it.

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6 Common Dating Rules Parents Set for Christian Teens

By Kelli Mahoney. Christian Teens Expert

Updated October 08, 2016.

Many parents set rules for their Christian teens about dating. While setting rules is a good idea, it is important for parents to think through the rules that they do set. Parents need to know why they are setting the rules, and they also need to discuss the rules openly with their children. Here are some of the most common dating rules and how they can be used most effectively to guide teens through the world of dating:

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1) No Dating Until You Are ____ Years Old.

Pros: You can set an age where most teens have a good maturity level and are able to think independently.
Cons: Not all teens mature at the same rate, so even though your teen comes to that age, he or she may still not be able to handle it.
The Solution: Try using that age as a review age. Tell your teen that you will talk about dating when he or she is ____ years old. Then you can sit down and have a conversation to see if your teen is ready.

2) You Must Date a Fellow Christian.

Pros: The Bible says Christians should be yoked to fellow believers.

If a teen is dating another Christian, there is a greater likelihood that they will remain abstinent and supportive of one another.
Cons: Some people say they are Christians, but they are not necessarily Godly in their actions. Setting this rule alone can breed lying and inappropriate activities.
The Solution: You can set the rule, but also leave it open for your approval. Make sure you meet the dating partner. Don t grill him or her about their faith, but get to know him or her to evaluate whether or not you think this teen shares your child s values.

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3) Dates Must Be In Public Places.

Pros: Dating that occurs in public places prevents temptation from getting the better of teenagers. They are always being watched by other people.
Cons: Just saying that the dating has to occur in public places does not necessarily ensure that the people around your Christian teen will hold him or her accountable. Also, teens sometimes don t stay in one place for an entire date.
The Solution: There are several solutions to this issue. You can try driving your teen to and from the place where the date will happen. You can also require that your teen goes on dates where other Christians will be present.

4) Double Dates Are Mandatory.

Pros: Going on a date with another couple helps hold your teen responsible and resist temptation. Christian teens face a lot of the same temptations as other young people, so having friends there can be helpful.
Cons: The other couple may not share the same values as your Christian teen. They may encourage inappropriate activity or leave early.
The Solution: Encourage your teen to call you if the other couple leaves or does anything that compromises your teen s situation. Also, try to meet the other couples so that you can feel more comfortable about your teen associating with him or her.

5) No Sex Until You Are Married.

Pros: Letting your teen know that you expect purity is important to tell your teen. Your direct statement will be in the back of their head, even if they seem to scoff at your statement.
Cons: Demanding that your child wait until marriage to have sex without explaining why may backfire. Using a punishment approach (the infamous, If you have sex, you will go to Hell approach) may only make your teen more curious.
The Solution: Spend some time discussing sex with your teen so that he or she understands why God wants teens to wait until marriage. Having a clear understanding of why they should wait can help teens make better decisions.

6) Avoid Situations That Increase Temptation.

Pros: Telling your teen to be careful when holding hands, kissing, or touching can help him or her avoid situations that can end up going too far. It also helps teens identify early when a situation is becoming dangerous.
Cons: Just making the blanket demand can make it easy for teens to rebel or go too far without understanding. Teens may also not understand what to do when they end up in a tempting situation.
The Solution: Discuss temptation openly with your teen. You don t have to divulge all of your temptations, but explain how temptation is normal and everybody faces it. Also go over ways to avoid temptation, but also ways to cope when faced with it. Be sure to include what too far means and how to be safe from things like date rape when in tempting situations.

While all of these rules are appropriate, it will be easier for your teen to follow your rules if they understand where the rules come from. Don t just cite Scripture — explain how it applies. If you feel uncomfortable doing it on your own, bring in another parent, youth worker. or youth pastor to help.

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Dating 101: The New Rules

The times, they are a-changin’. And, in the city, they’re changing even faster than usual. Our hyper-distracted temperament, grass-is-greener FOMO, and impatient demands to get everything, like, yesterday are rewriting the rules of dating quicker than you can say “swipe right.” What was once an afternoon (fine, a lonely Sunday evening) spent trawling OkCupid is now a five-minute Tinder blitz during a treadmill run. What was once speed-dating is now a “pheromone night” spent cautiously sniffing strangers’ T-shirts. Playing it cool is over. Multi-dating is at an all-time high. Boundaries are being crossed, rubbed out, and re-drawn. It’s a brave new world in which finding a date is as easy as ordering a pizza — although not always as satisfying.

With an unholy trinity of traditional, online, and mobile dating options to choose from, the possibilities are almost endless. But, what exactly does that mean for being single in the city? For many, this new landscape has made dating more fun, more diverse, and more empowering than ever. You may well need a crash helmet, though. Hold on tight; we’re not in Kansas anymore…

The waiting game is over.

In the city, we’re all very busy, and time is the most precious of all our assets. We command instantaneous communication, real-time news, and 24/7 information, and our dating attitudes now reflect the same warp-speed principles. It’s no coincidence that so many of our Tinder profiles declare that we’re not looking for a pen pal; we’re looking to get to the point, because we don’t have time to waste.

Playing coy has become old news. With a social-media-enabled world out there offering new matches and distractions, waiting three days, or even 24 hours, to reply to a text is as antiquated as sending a carrier pigeon. Even people raised on a confused diet of Germaine Greer and The Rules are fully embracing this new direction. Want something? Go get it. That doesn’t make you desperate; it makes you empowered.

It might be a more business-minded approach, although that needn’t be a bad thing. Rachel MacLynn, MD, founder of exclusive matchmaking agency, The Vida Consultancy. cut her teeth as a business psychologist and incorporates that ethos into her workings. “Finding a partner is a goal. You need to really define what that goal actually is. Otherwise, it’s not going to work,” she told us.

What does all this newfound tenaciousness mean once you’re actually on your date? Well, whatever you feel like. It’s up to you and no one else to decide how or where you choose to end the evening.

Whether it’s IRL, online, or mobile, multi-dating is the new normal. Be prepared to be one of, if not many, then at least a few. (But, you’re a city mouse and totally adept at multi-tasking, right? You’ll be fine.) Location-based apps, like Coffee Meets Bagel. have expanded the pool of possibilities and created a previously unexperienced ease.

Joel Simkhai, CEO and founder of Grindr, tells us, “I wanted a more spontaneous way to meet guys, but had no idea it would become such a hit. I’ll never forget the first time I went to London a few months after launching Grindr. I turned it on and saw guys showing up all over the place. It’s now part of the fabric of gay culture, and we have over five million active monthly users globally. Social media has completely streamlined dating. We live in a culture of instant gratification, and apps like Grindr help aid that.”

You don’t just have to handle people simultaneously; you also should balance the platforms used to meet them. You could choose to catch up with friends on group dates organized by sites like Grouper. Another option is the growing number of quirky dating events (perhaps an extension of our readily-bored mindset). Pop-up speed-dating is now a thing (Last Night A Speed Date Changed My Life is worth trying based on the name alone). There are pheromone nights. during which T-shirts that have been worn for three days are bagged up and smelled by prospective suitors. You could try Shh Dating. one-minute speed dates that rely on non-verbal communication. Or, there are Dating in the Dark events if you’re not afraid to meet your future paramour in total darkness.

Use your time wisely, and cast your net wide. One thing’s for sure: You’ll never be bored.

Use your profile to stand out — as yourself. Profile pictures featuring a sedated tiger/elephant/unicorn? The first 60 of those we saw were cool. Kate Taylor, Match.com’s resident relationship expert, says, “Use summery photos. Recent research showed that these were seen as more attractive than wintery ones.” But, please, no abs selfies or group photos — which one are you for goodness’ sake?!

“The key is to come across as genuine,” Justin Mateen, co-founder and CMO of Tinder tells us. “We’re all attracted to that. Pick-up lines don’t work in the real world; what makes you think they’re going to work on Tinder?”

Authenticity isn’t just important on dating apps. “Never become someone you’re not during the dating process,” Amy Laurent. relationship expert and celebrity matchmaker says. “You have to have a strong sense of who you are before entering the dating realm.”

Think outside the box.

Reckon you know what you want? Not so fast. According to the experts, the idea of having a “type” should be obsolete. Megan Karnes, a London-based counsellor, explains, “You never end up with who you think you will. You may find the ‘perfect’ person, but, ironically, that doesn’t mean they’re the right one.” Laurent agrees, “I can’t tell you how many times that two people who look perfect for each other on paper are actually not a match.”

“In the suburbs, you’re more likely to meet someone like you, who shares your culture. You can rely more heavily on instant attraction and know that things may well slot into place,” MacLynn explains, “The problem in cities is there’s so much diversity that it makes it impossible to rely on the physical to analyze compatibility. You need to find foundations: shared values, attitudes, and energy levels.”

With this in mind, be open. It’s far more important to find someone who has similar values than someone who has an appealing look, bank account, or age. A person’s circumstances fluctuate over the course of their lifetime, but core values don’t. Nicola Rose, a counselling psychologist, expands, “If two individuals share a similar set of values, it’s going to make it easier for them to develop a fulfilling life.”

Think about what you want vs. what you actually need. Using your phone to search for an exact replica of Channing Tatum in Magic Mike may sound like a good idea, but you still need compatibility to back it up. There might be a fast-forward button for finding your Tinderfella or Tinderella, but there’s no shortcut to actual love.

Your time, energy, self-esteem, and wellbeing are precious. Living in a city can knock these out of you, but dating should exhilarate you and bring positivity to your life. Taylor puts it bluntly: “Dating should be fun. If it’s making you miserable, you’re doing something wrong, or you’re doing it with the wrong person.”

The diversity of the city means that everyone has vastly different takes on acceptable behaviour. Someone being rude? Get up and leave. Someone read The Game one too many times? No time for negging, thanks. Someone sending you unsolicited genitalia pics? Block, baby, block. That’s what that button’s there for.

“Boundaries cut out all the stress of dating and make you more relaxed, because they protect you. What weak daters do is complain about people, but keep seeing them. Don’t be that person,” says Taylor. You can know 10 minutes into a date that it’s just never going to happen, and that’s okay. “No one says you have to stay more than an hour if he/she is definitely not for you,” says Laurent. (Phew — now you can go home and watch Homeland in your pyjamas.)

Be honest with yourself, and remember who you are. Don’t lose your sense of self, start cancelling plans with friends, or carry on seeing someone who makes you feel bad. Every cliché you’ve ever known should come into play at that point. Life’s too short. Every cloud. Plenty more fish. And, one new one: Tinder is the night. Now, get out there and own it.


Flirting Tips For Women – How To Create Instant Attraction! #matchmaker #dating


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Flirting Tips For Women That Create Instant Attraction

I don’t think flirting is something that one should ever have to define. Webster might tell us that flirting is ‘behaving as though attracted to or trying to attract someone ’ and whilst this may give us an idea of what flirting is, many of us are still left unable to create instant attraction with guys.

I think instead, we should all have our own understanding of what we think flirting is to us, before we try to move on to the flirting tips for women that create a great chemistry and instant attraction.

Flirting For Me

For me personally, flirting is getting enthralled by playful and childish games. It’s as if you and the person you are with are creating this aura around you that only you can see; that only you two are in on.

Flirting can be the way you look at someone. Flirting can be paying someone a compliment for the first time. Flirting can be challenging someone or even insulting someone, so long as you’ve got a big cheeky grin on your face when you say it!

Flirting is such a fluid concept, and the idea of it is something that I’ve always been deeply fascinated by. I think the beauty of flirting is that everyone has their own take on it, and it’s these contrasts and similarities in the way people operate that creates great chemistry.

Chemistry

You can never have great chemistry with everyone; no matter how charming, charismatic and engaging you might be, there will always be people you just don’t ‘click’ with. But it’s this synergy between two people when they do click that creates instant attraction.

It’s this kind of synergy that makes great romantic novels, blockbuster movies and it’s these moments that we as humans are all in endless pursuit of.

Why was flirting so much easier when we were kids?

Think back to when you were at school, and you saw a boy you really fancied. I’m sure it came a lot more naturally to you back then than it does now with a guy you really like. And it’s because as adults, we’re always looking to censor ourselves; our actions, what we say, and how we communicate. And it’s this censoring that stops you from clicking with people. You can read all the flirting tips for women that glossy mags and dating sites have to offer, but if you don’t let yourself go a little, you’re never going to really have that chemistry with someone.

When we were kids, we weren’t afraid to break out of our shells; to be a bit cheeky or a little bit playful. The problem isn’t not knowing how to flirt; it’s being cautious and caring what other people think of us.

Stop caring

The thing that most people don’t seem to realize is that flirting should look a little silly to those around you. Flirting should be a bit childish and playful. And when it is, it really doesn’t matter what anyone else is thinking because you’ve already stepped out of your shell, and you’re far more focused on the person you’re attracted to whose in front of you.

Flirting tips for girls

Here I say “for girls” because I think they’re the ones you really need to learn from in this instance…

1) Get Playful
2) Challenge Guys
3) Role Play
4) Be Unpredictable
5) Be Animated

It’s on my events and in my newsletter where I really get into these topics and elaborate on the practical applications of them. But as I said earlier, you all know how to flirt. You’ve all done it before, and you’ll all do it again because it’s instinctive. Just let yourself get in touch with your impulses and stop censoring yourself.

When it comes to flirting, the more natural and congruent you are with how you do it, the more you will ‘click’ with the guys that you’re already meeting.

So now you know some flirting tips for women that will instantly attract a guy, it s crucial to keep him wanting more

This means using proven dating tips that work with almost all men and help to turn the attraction up a little, to the point where he can t stop thinking about you and must get in touch. In my FREE newsletter I show you some of the most cutting edge techniques for meeting, attracting and keeping your ideal guy, including more important flirting tips for women that really work. So sign up today and get instant access, you can be reading the first newsletter within minutes from now.

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Оlga. 50, Russian Federation, Novosibirsk

Екатерина. 66, Russian Federation, Arhangelsk

Olga. 38, Kazakhstan, Almati

Peter. 36, Germany, Dresden

Andrew. 52, United Kingdom, Poole

Yaxchi. 38, United States, Bowling Green

William. 21, United Kingdom, London

Mikey. 50, United Kingdom, Preston

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SEEK – An Expression #alt #dating


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SEEK is a computational gene co-expression search engine. SEEK provides biologists with a way to navigate the massive human expression compendium that now contains thousands of expression datasets. SEEK returns a robust ranking of co-expressed genes in the biological area of interest defined by the user’s query genes. In the meantime, it also prioritizes thousands of expression datasets according to the user’s query of interest. The unique strengths of SEEK include its support for multi-gene query and cross-platform analysis, as well as its rich visualization features.

21700 genes in human
4929 mRNA microarray datasets
281 RNASeq datasets
48 platforms

What is a query?

A query is a gene or a gene-set representing a biological theme that a user wants to investigate. Examples of a good query include genes from a common transcriptionally regulated pathway or process, a cellular component, a molecular complex, or a differentially expressed gene list or biomarker list.

Start by entering a query, like GLI1 GLI2 PTCH1. into the search box. SEEK will identify co-expressions related to this set of genes. Next, click Search.

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1/13/15 – Added citation page. Read our paper in Nature Methods

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8 Simple Rules for Dating a Duggar Daughter #dating #london


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8 Simple Rules for Dating a Duggar Daughter

In the last season of “19 Kids and Counting,” you’ve seen not one, but two Duggar daughters (Jill and Jessa ) go through the courting process. And you’ve probably noticed that the Duggars take courting (their version of dating) very seriously. Each Duggar lady (and Duggar guy, too) sets standards for her relationship as soon as a courtship is official, but the rules evolve as the relationship becomes more serious. Read on to get all the do’s and don’ts of Duggar dating.

1. Dad approves all courtships

Before a boy approaches one of the lovely Duggar daughters, he must go through Jim Bob first. After he makes his interest known, Jim Bob helps vet the suitor to make sure he embodies the values the Duggar girls require in a mate. Watch below as a nervous Ben Seewald asks Jessa Duggar to officially court.

2. No dating without a chaperone

To help enforce their rules for dating, the ladies are required to have a chaperone on each of their dates. But the chaperone doesn’t have to be an adult. In fact, many of the younger Duggars tag along, often in exchange for candy!

3. No chest-on-chest contact. Side hugs only!

When the Duggars girls are greeting their beaus, they often go in for an innocent side hug. Any other public displays of affection are off-limits.

4. Holding hands is only allowed if you’re engaged

The rules that the girls set during the courtships evolve with the relationship. Once a lucky boy puts a ring on a Duggar daughter’s finger, he’s allowed to hold her hand, but that’s it. Anyone who gets too “handsy” will have to answer to Jim Bob.

5. Dad and mom are cc’d on texts

In order to hold their daughters accountable, Mom and Dad Duggar ask to be cc’d on the girls’ text messages while they’re courting (or listen in on Skype calls, as you can see below). They make sure the conversation stays PG and help the girls focus on getting to know their suitors. Once engaged, the girls get a bit more privacy when communicating.

6. Dress (modestly) to impress

You won’t catch any of the Duggar girls in trendy crop tops or mini skirts. Instead, they practice modest dress. which means keeping shoulders, thighs and cleavage covered. Not only does it prevent distractions while dating, but it also “keeps the relationship pure” according to Michelle. Luckily, the Duggar girls are savvy about making modesty fashionable, wearing lots of maxi skirts and layering tank tops.

As part of their religious views, the Duggar ladies say no to all forms of alcohol, in order to keep their heads and hearts clear throughout the dating process. So you better believe that’s not wine they are toasting with below.

8. NO kissing (or any other hanky panky)

In order to emphasize communication and getting to know their significant other, the Duggar daughters agree to save their first kiss, and everything that follows, for their wedding day.


5 Key Flirting Tips For Men – Flirting Tips Excelent For Texting #adult #finder


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I just finished up The Ultimate Texting Guide and, WOW. What I liked best was the real world applications and the flirty tips. Some of the things that has not worked for me in the past was that I would text girls like they were my friends and I didn’t really get anywhere with that. The Ultimate Texting Guide even had a lot of example texts to use that I could just send to girls. It was really eye opening, a lot of good information. The information in The Ultimate Texting Guide is well worth the investment, I don’t think you will see it anywhere else.

I Ben L. 23 Scottsdale AZ

I am what some people call a natural in the real world but I was never a big fan of texting until I read The Ultimate Texting Guide. It’s step-by-step guide to being successful with girls. Except it or not texting is part of today’s world and if anything it’s becoming more predominant. Any phone that text messages should have Tyler Tray’s hand book attached to it.

Ian, 28 San Francisco CA

5 Key Flirting Tips For Men

Flirting Tips Excelent For Texting

Flirting is becoming more and more significant every year. Before the 19 th century, couples were betrothed (matched up) at early ages and there was no need for flirting. It wasn’t until after the 19 th century that men and women started to step out of their community and traditions and it became their job to figure out their relationships. Around the 1950’s, men and women started needing to have and develop basic flirting skills.

Around the 80’s, it became clear that if you wanted to be successful with women you needed to have flirting skills. By the 20 th century, flirting had become the determining factor in a man’s success with women. Now-a-days, if you want to be successful with women, you must be able to flirt in your texting, text messages, conversations and body language.

First, before we jump into the flirting tips, let me point out that if you are having poor success with women it doesn’t have to be that way – it’s just a lack of knowledge. Learning and applying the right flirting tips will have a huge impact on what women you attract into your life. I’ve seen it happen hundreds of times.

These flirting tips have been used in my coaching seminars and proven to bring results. The best thing to do is try new things until you find what works. Enjoy these flirting tips:

Flirting Tips #1 – Make Physical Contact

Women communicate through physical interactions way more than men and you must communicate with her physically to be successful. Just make sure that it is non-threatening by touching her hand, arm or back.

Once you have initiated the touch you need to be aware if she touches you back. If she does, that’s a strong indicator that she feels safe around you and that you can keep progressing the interaction. If she doesn’t, consider backing off.

Flirting Tips #2 – Leave on a high – get her laughing

The ending is the most important part in a conversation – just like it’s the most important part in a speech. This is the final impression that sticks in her head.

For example, if you are going to meet her don’t just say, “ya we will see you then, bye.” Instead say something like, “yeah just try not to embarrass me.” or “Don’t forget to paint your toe nails.” or “This is where you say you can’t wait to see me and hope you can keep your hands to yourself.” You will see women wanting to be with you more if you can end off conversations with her laughing.

Flirting Tips #3 – Remember to always qualify

Men seem to struggle with this. The goal is not to sell yourself, but instead take the position of being sold to. This is a much better position and it’s the only way exceptional women are going to want you.

You can do this by asking question like, “that’s a cool necklace did you get it traveling?” To keep it on the more flirty side you can do what is called roll reversal, “So are you going to ask me out or what?” or “You didn’t just tell me you liked hiking to get me to like you, did you?” Whatever you do, realize that you have no idea of what that good looking girl has to offer, so don’t treat her like she’s a queen, it doesn’t make sense.

Flirting Tips #4 – Props

Believe it or not, women want to flirt with men but have a hard time doing it. Having a prop makes it so much easier and inviting for them to come up to you. It also gives you something to talk about to break the ice.

You could use a bandana that hangs out of your pocket or a hat that stands out, a shirt that says something funny, etc. Then if a girl asks about your bandana you can say, “I don’t think you can handle it.” Then you can go into a made up story or just say “it’s to match my shoes what do you think?”

Flirting Tips #5 – Flirt through texting

Being successful with women is becoming easier and easier for men. Why? Because communication through text messaging, emails, and SMS text messages has became such an integral part in everyday communication. This is a gold mine for men. It gives you time to compose the right message (which also improves your real world flirting). You can also interact with more than one woman at once to increase your chances and build your confidence. Most importantly, texting and text messages cut out all the attraction triggers that often times hurt your chances, such as clothes, smile, breath, hair, etc. All you’re left with are words and timing.

Once you get the right words with the right timing, you can expect to have a ton of success with women. And since most men fail at flirting in texting, you will stand out above the rest and you’ll see a lot of women responding desirably to you.

Tyler Tray is the author of The Ulitmate Texting Guide for men and has taught hundreds of men on how to be more successful with women.

P.S. Enjoy the free texting tips. Now, what I’ve noticed in the past few years of coaching men about texting is that most men really don’t know how to utilize the power that texting can have on their success with women. Before going any further, you should really ask yourself these questions:

– Do you ever find yourself sending text messages that failed?

– Do you seem to spend way to much time trying to think of the right line to say?

– Do you seem to send messages that don’t get the results you want?

If you have answered yes to any of these, don’t feel alone. It’s becuase most men text women like they are friends and it destroys the attraction.

The hard part is that this kind of texting is ingrained and it’s very dificult to step outside of the box and see what really creates the attraction and sexual tension with the women you desire. The worst part is, most men will never see what kind of success they could have had.

This is why I created The Ultimate Texting Guide. You’ll discover over 101 time-tested and proven text messages along with seeing exactly what women respond to and how to apply it through texting and day-to-day conversation. At the moment, I’m also including 3 of my top interviews with dating gurus where they cover topics on style, body language, flirting, facebook/myspace secrets, and more. On top of this, I am offering proven steops on how to get phone numbers and the fool proof phone call that always gets you the date.

If you really want to see some drastic improvments in your success with women, you’re going to need to step outside of your box and see what women really respond to. I gaurentee if you apply the Secrets found in The Ultimate Texting Guide, your success with women will double. In fact, if that doesn’t happen in the next 60 days, I will refund every penny back to you with no questions asked. Just click the link and let’s get started on texting some irresistible text messages.


How To Be Flirty With Someone You Like #black #dating #websites


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How To Be Flirty With Someone You Like

Updated June 30, 2016.

You see someone from across the room and think: Wow. I want to meet them. But how can you be sure that your body language conveys your true intentions – to be flirty?

These body language cues are excellent ways to show the object of your interest that you d like to get to know them better. And if someone uses these cues on you? Flirt right back — it s harmless, and practice makes perfect.

Get Flirty With Your Eyes

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Holding eye contact with someone you find appealing for approximately five seconds is well-used flirt tactic, mostly because it is highly effective, although its ease and simplicity of use doesn t hurt. According to the book, The Definitive Guide of Body Language , by Alan and Barbara Pease, the person initiating the flirt will – on average – need to lock eyes three times before the flirt recipient catches on.

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Be a Huge Flirt With Preening

There are many, many ways one groom themselves in public in a flattering yet flirty way, depending on your gender. Ladies can try some hair stroking, posture enhancing, neck exposing, hip tilting (if standing), clothes straightening or lip licking – all with the intention of calling attention to her attractiveness. Men can also straighten their clothing. lick their lips or fix their hair, but they should also include things like hooking their fingers into their pants (if standing), suck in their stomach, or take deep breaths to increase the size of their chest. For both men and women, try to use preening body language that shows off your best features while enhancing what makes you, you.

How To Flirt With A Smile

There are few things better than receiving a genuine, radiant smile from a stranger, yet many people don t respond to them as a flirt tactic. Therefore, use your smile in conjunction with the other body language ideas listed in this article to ensure whomever you ve got your eye on realizes a flirt is your intention.

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Pointing? It’s a Great Body Language Cue

No, not by using your finger silly. Instead, try to point at the person you want to flirt with by moving your body towards them. Take your feet and make sure they are facing your flirt target, and use your shoulders to lean into them – even if you aren t speaking with them. Other ideas include facing your shoulders towards them or closing off a space just for the two of you (such as crossing your legs towards each other).

Flirty Touching

Look for opportunities where you can touch the person you want to flirt with, either accidentally or otherwise. Shaking hands is an excellent flirt tactic. because not only does it place your hands together (which conveys a higher level of intimacy according to Alan and Barbara Pease), but it is easy way to combine flirting with an introduction. You could also try carefully and casually placing your hands on the person s arms to very gently move them so you can pass by on your way to the bathroom, or lightly tap their arm while sharing a laugh. And if you aren t quite comfortable touching the person you want to flirt with quite yet, you can try mimicking their movements for a short period of time (i.e. a couple of seconds), instead.