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Online Dating Advice for Men

Below is some online dating advice for men that you likely won’t see anywhere else. It’s different from most online dating advice for men because it covers both techniques and mindsets that will help you succeed in online dating. Plus, there’s an exercise at the end that will deepen your understanding of what women are looking for online. It can help you truly master online dating.

Make women chase you through online dating

The world of online dating is filled with guys who are desperately seeking out any attractive girl. These guys provide no challenge to women and as a result women find them boring. So if you want to get a girl’s attention online and even get her chasing you, show you’re not like the others. Show her that you’re not willing to settle for any woman ; you’re out there looking for the right woma n. Show her that if a girl is going to win you over, she’s got to be special.

Now this starts before you even begin online dating. Before creating an online dating profile, take the time and figure out exactly what you want in a woman (her personality, hobbies, values, etc).

Once you know what you want in the women you meet online, add some of that information to your online dating profile. List the qualities you want in a woman as well as any “deal breakers ” that you won’t tolerate from women online. (When listing this information in your online dating profile you want to do it in a positive way. If you don’t want girls that flake, don’t say “I hate flakey girls” as that can make you sound bitter. Instead frame it positively, saying something like “I’m looking for a girl with integrity who keeps her word”).

When women see you know what you want and are actively filtering girls out, they’ll view you as a high-value guy. The women you meet online will begin to work for your attention because they know that in order to keep you interested a woman has got to be special.

When meeting a woman online, keep her off the pedestal

One of the most common online dating mistakes guys make is putting a girl on a pedestal. Just because the girl is attractive and mentioned a few things in her profile that really resonated with him he’ll start telling himself how incredible and perfect this girl is. This can cause a few problems with online dating. For one, he may find himself sending a long, rambling, and needy first message declaring how perfect they are for one another (which will creep her out). Or he’ll simply find himself wasting the day, checking his inbox to see if she replied to his message.

To avoid this common online dating trap there’s a few things you can do. Often, just realizing what’s happening and reminding yourself that you don’t actually know anything about her can be enough. If you’re still hung up on her, try ascribing some silly characteristics to her (maybe she has a weird laugh, or an unhealthy obsession with unicorns) just to humanize her.

But always keep in mind that the best thing you can do in these situations is to simply find other women. Whether its finding women online or elsewhere, the more women you meet the less likely you are to get hung up on that one girl.

How to send a first message in online dating

The first message in online dating is really much simpler than most guys make it out to be. Most guys think you need to send an amazing first message to get a woman’s attention. But that’s not the case. You just need to separate yourself from other guys and get a conversation rolling.

Follow these guidelines you’ll be sure to send good first message to girls online:

First, scan her online dating profile and see what jumps out at you. Then look to bring this up in your first message the girl. Showing you actually read her profile (most guys don’t), and that you’re interested in her and not just her looks will help your message stand out.

End your message in a way that compels her to respond. Believe it or not, a simple open ended question like “That’s a cool picture, where was it taken?” or “how’s your day been?” will work. If you want your first message to a girl to have a bit more kick to it, you can always offer her a challenge. For instance if she mentions she’s a dancer in her profile, you can challenge her with “you like to dance? Very well, I challenge you to a dance-off!”

Keep your first message to a girl online short. 2-3 sentences is fine. If you’re feeling talkative, maybe two paragraphs that size. Anything longer looks like you’re trying too hard.

Overall, keep the vibe fun, playful, and light. Just have fun and see if you can get a conversation going.

Meeting up with women online

Don’t make the mistake of thinking that the girls you meet online are going to move things forward for you. If you’re going to meet up with a woman you met online, more than likely you’re going to need to take charge and ask for the number/date yourself.

A good time to ask a girl you met online for her number (or a date) is on the 3rd or 4th message. Having a brief back-and-forth allows you to build attraction and familiarity and increases the odds she’ll say yes. It also shows that you require women to put in a bit of effort before you invite them out (showing that you’re a high-value, selective guy).

Learn more about online dating with a fake profile

If you want to learn more about online dating, a fun thing to do is to set up a fake profile. Get a random picture of an attractive woman, create and online dating profile for her, and watch what happens. You’ll get flooded with emails from guys who are interested.

Flipping through these emails can give you some great online dating advice for men. You can figure out what a good first message looks like, and what kind of messages to avoid. You can even take a look at some of the other guys’ profiles for ideas on how to improve your own.

This exercise will also give you a good insight into what it’s like for women to date online. By understanding a woman’s perspective and experience, you’ll have a better idea of what women are looking for. Then you’ll be able to show women exactly that.

(For a ton more tips on how to meet women online, check out the Pickup Podcast episodes here and here )

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Dating Advice for Recently Divorced Men – The Art of Charm #love #relationship


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Dating Advice for Recently Divorced Men

The bad news? Getting divorced is one of the hardest things you’ll ever go through. The good news? Once the divorce is finalized the worst part is over. Now it’s time for you to get back out there and start living again. While you might be a little gun shy at first, one of the best pieces of dating advice for recently divorced men is just to get back out there and get to it. Once you start moving you aren’t going to want to stop.

One of the best ways to spend your time, especially after a divorce, is on self-improvement. Taking classes, reading books, learning new skills and other forms of self-improvement are the perfect channel for your. What’s more, few things are more attractive than you being your best self. Every guy has his “bucket list” of things he wants to learn or ways he wants to improve. Take a little time for yourself and start knocking things off that list.

Again, some of the best dating advice for recently divorced men is just to get out there. Call up your best single guy friends and start making the town. Go into every situation with a positive attitude and lots of energy. Some ways to make a night on the town something to remember:

  • Cheers lots of guys. Clinking glasses or giving high fives is a great way to show that you’re carefree. It also makes you look like you know everyone in the room always a social attractor.
  • Make the rounds. Don’t spend your night talking to just one woman. Spend a little bit of time on a lot of different women. It helps to show that you’re not putting all your eggs in one basket.
  • Smile. It’s some of the simplest dating advice out there for all men: A big, wide smile that incorporates your entire face is one of the best ways to communicate that you’re fun, playful and nonthreatening. It also releases chemicals in the brain that elevate your mood.

You can’t win the lottery without buying a ticket and you can’t meet women without getting out there. Make it a point to socialize. You’ll be glad you did.

Become a Man of Abundance

One of the things we teach at The Art of Charm is to “act as if.” This is also known as “fake it until you make it.” Far from just wishful thinking, there is a scientific basis to the idea that acting “as if” makes it more likely that you will take on the qualities you are trying to have.

I want you to “act as if” you have an iPhone full of numbers. So many, in fact, that you don’t have room in your life for all the women you talk to. You only have time for the women who are most impressive, most interesting, most attractive and most worth your time. Talk to a woman for a bit, get a conversation going, then regroup with your friends. This will give you more room to walk away and work the room. Eventually, you’ll find that women are chasing you rather than the other way around. This is called an abundance mentality and it’s one of the most powerful weapons you can have in your dating arsenal.

On a related note, don’t be afraid to walk away completely. Set some standards, and then stick to them. If a woman isn’t really doing it for you your time is much better served walking around the room looking for a woman who you’re more interested in. This is the biggest part of cultivating an abundance mentality: Knowing that there are hundreds of women for you to talk to every time you go out.

Be Honest About What You Want

If you could have the “perfect woman” what would she be like to you? Be honest with yourself about this; What are you really looking for? Don’t create an unreasonable list of expectations that will filter out all women. Do, however, have a list of those qualities that you find most desirable and those that you find most undesirable. Knowing what you want will save you a lot of time over the course of a night, a weekend and a lifetime.

If you want more dating tips for recently divorced men sign up for The Art of Charm Academy. This is the online version of our popular Boot Camp. Men pay thousands of dollars for the Boot Camp, but we’re offering the Academy right now for just one dollar. Try it out today!

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Flirting Tips for Guys – The Art of Charm #desi #dating


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Flirting Tips for Guys

Flirting is an incredibly fast and powerful way to attract a woman. Many men struggle with it, not realizing that a few simple flirting tips for guys can dramatically increase any man’s ability to flirt successfully. If you’re interested in mastering flirting, here are some flirting tips for guys that you can use to attract women wherever you go.

Using touch to flirt with a girl

Perhaps the most powerful way to flirt with a girl is with touch. The key to flirting through touch is start with quick, playful taps. From there, gradually increase the duration of your touch while making it more intimate.

For example, if you are flirting with a girl you just met, a good way to start flirting through touch is to use the back of your hand and simply tap her around the upper elbow. From there, take small steps forward with your touch. Use the inside of your hand and touch her upper arm, shoulder, back, and maybe work in some one-armed side-hugs. As you go along, you can gradually increase the duration of each touch.

Gradual escalation like this does a couple things that will help you attract women. First, it gets the girl comfortable being physical with you without her feeling overwhelmed. Second, touching her shows you’re comfortable with her, and subtly shows the girl you’re interested. Third, by not letting your hand linger for too long when you touch her, you show that you’re in control and you end up leaving her wanting more – which will have her chasing you in no time. (for more on how to turn a girl on with touch, check out the Pickup Podcast Interview with Vin DiCarlo )

How to playfully flirt with a girl

Think of flirting as a game. If you make the game too easy for the girl, she’ll get bored and won’t want to play. So to get the girl interested, you can use a flirting technique called “push-pull”. This means to show her a little bit of interest – but then playfully push her away.

For example, when talking to a girl you just met you could say something like “you’re totally awesome… you’re like my little sister”. The first half of that sentence lets the girl know that you’re interested in her. But in the second half you throw her through a bit of a loop. She’s not quite sure what to make of that interest since most guys don’t date girls that remind them of their little sister. By keeping her guessing and adding that bit of uncertainty, you’ll be able to keep her engaged (for more on push-pull and for further examples on how to playfully flirt with a girl, check out episode 8 of Pickup Podcast on playful teasing).

Make flirting a natural behavior

Becoming a natural flirt is less about mastering the right words and actions and has more to do with getting the right mindset. Once you have the proper frame of mind for flirting, you’ll find the right words and actions flow effortlessly.

The right mindset then, is simple. Assume that the woman you’re talking to is already attracted to you. Assume she wants you and is trying to get with you. See yourself as the perfect 10 out there, and that the best thing that can happen to her is to get your number, go on a date with you, or go home with you.

Now, don’t confuse this mindset with thinking you need to be arrogant. It’s simply about seeing yourself as the desirable, high-value guy women desire. From there, as always, you want to have fun and enjoy the idea that women are naturally attracted to you. That fun, positive attitude along with the assumption that girl’s want you will help you to naturally flirt with women.

For some inspiration, here’s an example of the flirty things to say to a girl that come from that mindset:

Her: “Want to get another drink?”

Him: “Oh I see, you’re trying to get me drunk and take advantage of me ;)”

How to flirt with a girl immediately

One of the easiest ways to start flirting with a girl is to simply give the girl you’re talking to a nickname. Using a nickname not only makes things light and playful, it also gets things a bit more personal. We tend to use nicknames with people we like and feel comfortable around, so it’s a great way to establish comfort and have some fun right off the bat.

The best nicknames for a girl are going to be the ones that are personalized to her. So while you could run around using the same default nickname with each girl (“muffin” or “troublemaker” generally work just fine) don’t be afraid to experiment. Use whatever nickname strikes you at the moment. Just keep it positive and have fun with it and you’ll be able to get women smiling right away.

Flirting with confidence

As helpful as flirting tips for guys are, all these techniques and mindsets won’t do much if you can’t show confidence when flirting. And no matter what flirting technique you use on a girl (touching, flirty banter, etc) the way to flirt with confidence is to have the right body language.

So when flirting with a girl, you want to lean back and show her that you’re relaxed and comfortable. Avoid fidgeting and “pecking” (constantly leaning toward and away from the woman your talking to, which makes a guy look like a bird pecking at food). Instead keep your body movements calm and controlled. Strong body language will help you look and feel more confident, which is going to make your flirting much more effective.

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Online Dating Advice for Men – The Art of Charm #single #online #dating


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Online Dating Advice for Men

Below is some online dating advice for men that you likely won’t see anywhere else. It’s different from most online dating advice for men because it covers both techniques and mindsets that will help you succeed in online dating. Plus, there’s an exercise at the end that will deepen your understanding of what women are looking for online. It can help you truly master online dating.

Make women chase you through online dating

The world of online dating is filled with guys who are desperately seeking out any attractive girl. These guys provide no challenge to women and as a result women find them boring. So if you want to get a girl’s attention online and even get her chasing you, show you’re not like the others. Show her that you’re not willing to settle for any woman ; you’re out there looking for the right woma n. Show her that if a girl is going to win you over, she’s got to be special.

Now this starts before you even begin online dating. Before creating an online dating profile, take the time and figure out exactly what you want in a woman (her personality, hobbies, values, etc).

Once you know what you want in the women you meet online, add some of that information to your online dating profile. List the qualities you want in a woman as well as any “deal breakers ” that you won’t tolerate from women online. (When listing this information in your online dating profile you want to do it in a positive way. If you don’t want girls that flake, don’t say “I hate flakey girls” as that can make you sound bitter. Instead frame it positively, saying something like “I’m looking for a girl with integrity who keeps her word”).

When women see you know what you want and are actively filtering girls out, they’ll view you as a high-value guy. The women you meet online will begin to work for your attention because they know that in order to keep you interested a woman has got to be special.

When meeting a woman online, keep her off the pedestal

One of the most common online dating mistakes guys make is putting a girl on a pedestal. Just because the girl is attractive and mentioned a few things in her profile that really resonated with him he’ll start telling himself how incredible and perfect this girl is. This can cause a few problems with online dating. For one, he may find himself sending a long, rambling, and needy first message declaring how perfect they are for one another (which will creep her out). Or he’ll simply find himself wasting the day, checking his inbox to see if she replied to his message.

To avoid this common online dating trap there’s a few things you can do. Often, just realizing what’s happening and reminding yourself that you don’t actually know anything about her can be enough. If you’re still hung up on her, try ascribing some silly characteristics to her (maybe she has a weird laugh, or an unhealthy obsession with unicorns) just to humanize her.

But always keep in mind that the best thing you can do in these situations is to simply find other women. Whether its finding women online or elsewhere, the more women you meet the less likely you are to get hung up on that one girl.

How to send a first message in online dating

The first message in online dating is really much simpler than most guys make it out to be. Most guys think you need to send an amazing first message to get a woman’s attention. But that’s not the case. You just need to separate yourself from other guys and get a conversation rolling.

Follow these guidelines you’ll be sure to send good first message to girls online:

First, scan her online dating profile and see what jumps out at you. Then look to bring this up in your first message the girl. Showing you actually read her profile (most guys don’t), and that you’re interested in her and not just her looks will help your message stand out.

End your message in a way that compels her to respond. Believe it or not, a simple open ended question like “That’s a cool picture, where was it taken?” or “how’s your day been?” will work. If you want your first message to a girl to have a bit more kick to it, you can always offer her a challenge. For instance if she mentions she’s a dancer in her profile, you can challenge her with “you like to dance? Very well, I challenge you to a dance-off!”

Keep your first message to a girl online short. 2-3 sentences is fine. If you’re feeling talkative, maybe two paragraphs that size. Anything longer looks like you’re trying too hard.

Overall, keep the vibe fun, playful, and light. Just have fun and see if you can get a conversation going.

Meeting up with women online

Don’t make the mistake of thinking that the girls you meet online are going to move things forward for you. If you’re going to meet up with a woman you met online, more than likely you’re going to need to take charge and ask for the number/date yourself.

A good time to ask a girl you met online for her number (or a date) is on the 3rd or 4th message. Having a brief back-and-forth allows you to build attraction and familiarity and increases the odds she’ll say yes. It also shows that you require women to put in a bit of effort before you invite them out (showing that you’re a high-value, selective guy).

Learn more about online dating with a fake profile

If you want to learn more about online dating, a fun thing to do is to set up a fake profile. Get a random picture of an attractive woman, create and online dating profile for her, and watch what happens. You’ll get flooded with emails from guys who are interested.

Flipping through these emails can give you some great online dating advice for men. You can figure out what a good first message looks like, and what kind of messages to avoid. You can even take a look at some of the other guys’ profiles for ideas on how to improve your own.

This exercise will also give you a good insight into what it’s like for women to date online. By understanding a woman’s perspective and experience, you’ll have a better idea of what women are looking for. Then you’ll be able to show women exactly that.

(For a ton more tips on how to meet women online, check out the Pickup Podcast episodes here and here )

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Dating Advice for Recently Divorced Men – The Art of Charm #african #dating


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Dating Advice for Recently Divorced Men

The bad news? Getting divorced is one of the hardest things you’ll ever go through. The good news? Once the divorce is finalized the worst part is over. Now it’s time for you to get back out there and start living again. While you might be a little gun shy at first, one of the best pieces of dating advice for recently divorced men is just to get back out there and get to it. Once you start moving you aren’t going to want to stop.

One of the best ways to spend your time, especially after a divorce, is on self-improvement. Taking classes, reading books, learning new skills and other forms of self-improvement are the perfect channel for your. What’s more, few things are more attractive than you being your best self. Every guy has his “bucket list” of things he wants to learn or ways he wants to improve. Take a little time for yourself and start knocking things off that list.

Again, some of the best dating advice for recently divorced men is just to get out there. Call up your best single guy friends and start making the town. Go into every situation with a positive attitude and lots of energy. Some ways to make a night on the town something to remember:

  • Cheers lots of guys. Clinking glasses or giving high fives is a great way to show that you’re carefree. It also makes you look like you know everyone in the room always a social attractor.
  • Make the rounds. Don’t spend your night talking to just one woman. Spend a little bit of time on a lot of different women. It helps to show that you’re not putting all your eggs in one basket.
  • Smile. It’s some of the simplest dating advice out there for all men: A big, wide smile that incorporates your entire face is one of the best ways to communicate that you’re fun, playful and nonthreatening. It also releases chemicals in the brain that elevate your mood.

You can’t win the lottery without buying a ticket and you can’t meet women without getting out there. Make it a point to socialize. You’ll be glad you did.

Become a Man of Abundance

One of the things we teach at The Art of Charm is to “act as if.” This is also known as “fake it until you make it.” Far from just wishful thinking, there is a scientific basis to the idea that acting “as if” makes it more likely that you will take on the qualities you are trying to have.

I want you to “act as if” you have an iPhone full of numbers. So many, in fact, that you don’t have room in your life for all the women you talk to. You only have time for the women who are most impressive, most interesting, most attractive and most worth your time. Talk to a woman for a bit, get a conversation going, then regroup with your friends. This will give you more room to walk away and work the room. Eventually, you’ll find that women are chasing you rather than the other way around. This is called an abundance mentality and it’s one of the most powerful weapons you can have in your dating arsenal.

On a related note, don’t be afraid to walk away completely. Set some standards, and then stick to them. If a woman isn’t really doing it for you your time is much better served walking around the room looking for a woman who you’re more interested in. This is the biggest part of cultivating an abundance mentality: Knowing that there are hundreds of women for you to talk to every time you go out.

Be Honest About What You Want

If you could have the “perfect woman” what would she be like to you? Be honest with yourself about this; What are you really looking for? Don’t create an unreasonable list of expectations that will filter out all women. Do, however, have a list of those qualities that you find most desirable and those that you find most undesirable. Knowing what you want will save you a lot of time over the course of a night, a weekend and a lifetime.

If you want more dating tips for recently divorced men sign up for The Art of Charm Academy. This is the online version of our popular Boot Camp. Men pay thousands of dollars for the Boot Camp, but we’re offering the Academy right now for just one dollar. Try it out today!

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Flirting Tips for Guys

Flirting is an incredibly fast and powerful way to attract a woman. Many men struggle with it, not realizing that a few simple flirting tips for guys can dramatically increase any man’s ability to flirt successfully. If you’re interested in mastering flirting, here are some flirting tips for guys that you can use to attract women wherever you go.

Using touch to flirt with a girl

Perhaps the most powerful way to flirt with a girl is with touch. The key to flirting through touch is start with quick, playful taps. From there, gradually increase the duration of your touch while making it more intimate.

For example, if you are flirting with a girl you just met, a good way to start flirting through touch is to use the back of your hand and simply tap her around the upper elbow. From there, take small steps forward with your touch. Use the inside of your hand and touch her upper arm, shoulder, back, and maybe work in some one-armed side-hugs. As you go along, you can gradually increase the duration of each touch.

Gradual escalation like this does a couple things that will help you attract women. First, it gets the girl comfortable being physical with you without her feeling overwhelmed. Second, touching her shows you’re comfortable with her, and subtly shows the girl you’re interested. Third, by not letting your hand linger for too long when you touch her, you show that you’re in control and you end up leaving her wanting more – which will have her chasing you in no time. (for more on how to turn a girl on with touch, check out the Pickup Podcast Interview with Vin DiCarlo )

How to playfully flirt with a girl

Think of flirting as a game. If you make the game too easy for the girl, she’ll get bored and won’t want to play. So to get the girl interested, you can use a flirting technique called “push-pull”. This means to show her a little bit of interest – but then playfully push her away.

For example, when talking to a girl you just met you could say something like “you’re totally awesome… you’re like my little sister”. The first half of that sentence lets the girl know that you’re interested in her. But in the second half you throw her through a bit of a loop. She’s not quite sure what to make of that interest since most guys don’t date girls that remind them of their little sister. By keeping her guessing and adding that bit of uncertainty, you’ll be able to keep her engaged (for more on push-pull and for further examples on how to playfully flirt with a girl, check out episode 8 of Pickup Podcast on playful teasing).

Make flirting a natural behavior

Becoming a natural flirt is less about mastering the right words and actions and has more to do with getting the right mindset. Once you have the proper frame of mind for flirting, you’ll find the right words and actions flow effortlessly.

The right mindset then, is simple. Assume that the woman you’re talking to is already attracted to you. Assume she wants you and is trying to get with you. See yourself as the perfect 10 out there, and that the best thing that can happen to her is to get your number, go on a date with you, or go home with you.

Now, don’t confuse this mindset with thinking you need to be arrogant. It’s simply about seeing yourself as the desirable, high-value guy women desire. From there, as always, you want to have fun and enjoy the idea that women are naturally attracted to you. That fun, positive attitude along with the assumption that girl’s want you will help you to naturally flirt with women.

For some inspiration, here’s an example of the flirty things to say to a girl that come from that mindset:

Her: “Want to get another drink?”

Him: “Oh I see, you’re trying to get me drunk and take advantage of me ;)”

How to flirt with a girl immediately

One of the easiest ways to start flirting with a girl is to simply give the girl you’re talking to a nickname. Using a nickname not only makes things light and playful, it also gets things a bit more personal. We tend to use nicknames with people we like and feel comfortable around, so it’s a great way to establish comfort and have some fun right off the bat.

The best nicknames for a girl are going to be the ones that are personalized to her. So while you could run around using the same default nickname with each girl (“muffin” or “troublemaker” generally work just fine) don’t be afraid to experiment. Use whatever nickname strikes you at the moment. Just keep it positive and have fun with it and you’ll be able to get women smiling right away.

Flirting with confidence

As helpful as flirting tips for guys are, all these techniques and mindsets won’t do much if you can’t show confidence when flirting. And no matter what flirting technique you use on a girl (touching, flirty banter, etc) the way to flirt with confidence is to have the right body language.

So when flirting with a girl, you want to lean back and show her that you’re relaxed and comfortable. Avoid fidgeting and “pecking” (constantly leaning toward and away from the woman your talking to, which makes a guy look like a bird pecking at food). Instead keep your body movements calm and controlled. Strong body language will help you look and feel more confident, which is going to make your flirting much more effective.

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Online Dating Advice for Men

Below is some online dating advice for men that you likely won’t see anywhere else. It’s different from most online dating advice for men because it covers both techniques and mindsets that will help you succeed in online dating. Plus, there’s an exercise at the end that will deepen your understanding of what women are looking for online. It can help you truly master online dating.

Make women chase you through online dating

The world of online dating is filled with guys who are desperately seeking out any attractive girl. These guys provide no challenge to women and as a result women find them boring. So if you want to get a girl’s attention online and even get her chasing you, show you’re not like the others. Show her that you’re not willing to settle for any woman ; you’re out there looking for the right woma n. Show her that if a girl is going to win you over, she’s got to be special.

Now this starts before you even begin online dating. Before creating an online dating profile, take the time and figure out exactly what you want in a woman (her personality, hobbies, values, etc).

Once you know what you want in the women you meet online, add some of that information to your online dating profile. List the qualities you want in a woman as well as any “deal breakers ” that you won’t tolerate from women online. (When listing this information in your online dating profile you want to do it in a positive way. If you don’t want girls that flake, don’t say “I hate flakey girls” as that can make you sound bitter. Instead frame it positively, saying something like “I’m looking for a girl with integrity who keeps her word”).

When women see you know what you want and are actively filtering girls out, they’ll view you as a high-value guy. The women you meet online will begin to work for your attention because they know that in order to keep you interested a woman has got to be special.

When meeting a woman online, keep her off the pedestal

One of the most common online dating mistakes guys make is putting a girl on a pedestal. Just because the girl is attractive and mentioned a few things in her profile that really resonated with him he’ll start telling himself how incredible and perfect this girl is. This can cause a few problems with online dating. For one, he may find himself sending a long, rambling, and needy first message declaring how perfect they are for one another (which will creep her out). Or he’ll simply find himself wasting the day, checking his inbox to see if she replied to his message.

To avoid this common online dating trap there’s a few things you can do. Often, just realizing what’s happening and reminding yourself that you don’t actually know anything about her can be enough. If you’re still hung up on her, try ascribing some silly characteristics to her (maybe she has a weird laugh, or an unhealthy obsession with unicorns) just to humanize her.

But always keep in mind that the best thing you can do in these situations is to simply find other women. Whether its finding women online or elsewhere, the more women you meet the less likely you are to get hung up on that one girl.

How to send a first message in online dating

The first message in online dating is really much simpler than most guys make it out to be. Most guys think you need to send an amazing first message to get a woman’s attention. But that’s not the case. You just need to separate yourself from other guys and get a conversation rolling.

Follow these guidelines you’ll be sure to send good first message to girls online:

First, scan her online dating profile and see what jumps out at you. Then look to bring this up in your first message the girl. Showing you actually read her profile (most guys don’t), and that you’re interested in her and not just her looks will help your message stand out.

End your message in a way that compels her to respond. Believe it or not, a simple open ended question like “That’s a cool picture, where was it taken?” or “how’s your day been?” will work. If you want your first message to a girl to have a bit more kick to it, you can always offer her a challenge. For instance if she mentions she’s a dancer in her profile, you can challenge her with “you like to dance? Very well, I challenge you to a dance-off!”

Keep your first message to a girl online short. 2-3 sentences is fine. If you’re feeling talkative, maybe two paragraphs that size. Anything longer looks like you’re trying too hard.

Overall, keep the vibe fun, playful, and light. Just have fun and see if you can get a conversation going.

Meeting up with women online

Don’t make the mistake of thinking that the girls you meet online are going to move things forward for you. If you’re going to meet up with a woman you met online, more than likely you’re going to need to take charge and ask for the number/date yourself.

A good time to ask a girl you met online for her number (or a date) is on the 3rd or 4th message. Having a brief back-and-forth allows you to build attraction and familiarity and increases the odds she’ll say yes. It also shows that you require women to put in a bit of effort before you invite them out (showing that you’re a high-value, selective guy).

Learn more about online dating with a fake profile

If you want to learn more about online dating, a fun thing to do is to set up a fake profile. Get a random picture of an attractive woman, create and online dating profile for her, and watch what happens. You’ll get flooded with emails from guys who are interested.

Flipping through these emails can give you some great online dating advice for men. You can figure out what a good first message looks like, and what kind of messages to avoid. You can even take a look at some of the other guys’ profiles for ideas on how to improve your own.

This exercise will also give you a good insight into what it’s like for women to date online. By understanding a woman’s perspective and experience, you’ll have a better idea of what women are looking for. Then you’ll be able to show women exactly that.

(For a ton more tips on how to meet women online, check out the Pickup Podcast episodes here and here )

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Dating Advice for Recently Divorced Men – The Art of Charm #singles #clubs


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Dating Advice for Recently Divorced Men

The bad news? Getting divorced is one of the hardest things you’ll ever go through. The good news? Once the divorce is finalized the worst part is over. Now it’s time for you to get back out there and start living again. While you might be a little gun shy at first, one of the best pieces of dating advice for recently divorced men is just to get back out there and get to it. Once you start moving you aren’t going to want to stop.

One of the best ways to spend your time, especially after a divorce, is on self-improvement. Taking classes, reading books, learning new skills and other forms of self-improvement are the perfect channel for your. What’s more, few things are more attractive than you being your best self. Every guy has his “bucket list” of things he wants to learn or ways he wants to improve. Take a little time for yourself and start knocking things off that list.

Again, some of the best dating advice for recently divorced men is just to get out there. Call up your best single guy friends and start making the town. Go into every situation with a positive attitude and lots of energy. Some ways to make a night on the town something to remember:

  • Cheers lots of guys. Clinking glasses or giving high fives is a great way to show that you’re carefree. It also makes you look like you know everyone in the room always a social attractor.
  • Make the rounds. Don’t spend your night talking to just one woman. Spend a little bit of time on a lot of different women. It helps to show that you’re not putting all your eggs in one basket.
  • Smile. It’s some of the simplest dating advice out there for all men: A big, wide smile that incorporates your entire face is one of the best ways to communicate that you’re fun, playful and nonthreatening. It also releases chemicals in the brain that elevate your mood.

You can’t win the lottery without buying a ticket and you can’t meet women without getting out there. Make it a point to socialize. You’ll be glad you did.

Become a Man of Abundance

One of the things we teach at The Art of Charm is to “act as if.” This is also known as “fake it until you make it.” Far from just wishful thinking, there is a scientific basis to the idea that acting “as if” makes it more likely that you will take on the qualities you are trying to have.

I want you to “act as if” you have an iPhone full of numbers. So many, in fact, that you don’t have room in your life for all the women you talk to. You only have time for the women who are most impressive, most interesting, most attractive and most worth your time. Talk to a woman for a bit, get a conversation going, then regroup with your friends. This will give you more room to walk away and work the room. Eventually, you’ll find that women are chasing you rather than the other way around. This is called an abundance mentality and it’s one of the most powerful weapons you can have in your dating arsenal.

On a related note, don’t be afraid to walk away completely. Set some standards, and then stick to them. If a woman isn’t really doing it for you your time is much better served walking around the room looking for a woman who you’re more interested in. This is the biggest part of cultivating an abundance mentality: Knowing that there are hundreds of women for you to talk to every time you go out.

Be Honest About What You Want

If you could have the “perfect woman” what would she be like to you? Be honest with yourself about this; What are you really looking for? Don’t create an unreasonable list of expectations that will filter out all women. Do, however, have a list of those qualities that you find most desirable and those that you find most undesirable. Knowing what you want will save you a lot of time over the course of a night, a weekend and a lifetime.

If you want more dating tips for recently divorced men sign up for The Art of Charm Academy. This is the online version of our popular Boot Camp. Men pay thousands of dollars for the Boot Camp, but we’re offering the Academy right now for just one dollar. Try it out today!

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Flirting Tips for Guys

Flirting is an incredibly fast and powerful way to attract a woman. Many men struggle with it, not realizing that a few simple flirting tips for guys can dramatically increase any man’s ability to flirt successfully. If you’re interested in mastering flirting, here are some flirting tips for guys that you can use to attract women wherever you go.

Using touch to flirt with a girl

Perhaps the most powerful way to flirt with a girl is with touch. The key to flirting through touch is start with quick, playful taps. From there, gradually increase the duration of your touch while making it more intimate.

For example, if you are flirting with a girl you just met, a good way to start flirting through touch is to use the back of your hand and simply tap her around the upper elbow. From there, take small steps forward with your touch. Use the inside of your hand and touch her upper arm, shoulder, back, and maybe work in some one-armed side-hugs. As you go along, you can gradually increase the duration of each touch.

Gradual escalation like this does a couple things that will help you attract women. First, it gets the girl comfortable being physical with you without her feeling overwhelmed. Second, touching her shows you’re comfortable with her, and subtly shows the girl you’re interested. Third, by not letting your hand linger for too long when you touch her, you show that you’re in control and you end up leaving her wanting more – which will have her chasing you in no time. (for more on how to turn a girl on with touch, check out the Pickup Podcast Interview with Vin DiCarlo )

How to playfully flirt with a girl

Think of flirting as a game. If you make the game too easy for the girl, she’ll get bored and won’t want to play. So to get the girl interested, you can use a flirting technique called “push-pull”. This means to show her a little bit of interest – but then playfully push her away.

For example, when talking to a girl you just met you could say something like “you’re totally awesome… you’re like my little sister”. The first half of that sentence lets the girl know that you’re interested in her. But in the second half you throw her through a bit of a loop. She’s not quite sure what to make of that interest since most guys don’t date girls that remind them of their little sister. By keeping her guessing and adding that bit of uncertainty, you’ll be able to keep her engaged (for more on push-pull and for further examples on how to playfully flirt with a girl, check out episode 8 of Pickup Podcast on playful teasing).

Make flirting a natural behavior

Becoming a natural flirt is less about mastering the right words and actions and has more to do with getting the right mindset. Once you have the proper frame of mind for flirting, you’ll find the right words and actions flow effortlessly.

The right mindset then, is simple. Assume that the woman you’re talking to is already attracted to you. Assume she wants you and is trying to get with you. See yourself as the perfect 10 out there, and that the best thing that can happen to her is to get your number, go on a date with you, or go home with you.

Now, don’t confuse this mindset with thinking you need to be arrogant. It’s simply about seeing yourself as the desirable, high-value guy women desire. From there, as always, you want to have fun and enjoy the idea that women are naturally attracted to you. That fun, positive attitude along with the assumption that girl’s want you will help you to naturally flirt with women.

For some inspiration, here’s an example of the flirty things to say to a girl that come from that mindset:

Her: “Want to get another drink?”

Him: “Oh I see, you’re trying to get me drunk and take advantage of me ;)”

How to flirt with a girl immediately

One of the easiest ways to start flirting with a girl is to simply give the girl you’re talking to a nickname. Using a nickname not only makes things light and playful, it also gets things a bit more personal. We tend to use nicknames with people we like and feel comfortable around, so it’s a great way to establish comfort and have some fun right off the bat.

The best nicknames for a girl are going to be the ones that are personalized to her. So while you could run around using the same default nickname with each girl (“muffin” or “troublemaker” generally work just fine) don’t be afraid to experiment. Use whatever nickname strikes you at the moment. Just keep it positive and have fun with it and you’ll be able to get women smiling right away.

Flirting with confidence

As helpful as flirting tips for guys are, all these techniques and mindsets won’t do much if you can’t show confidence when flirting. And no matter what flirting technique you use on a girl (touching, flirty banter, etc) the way to flirt with confidence is to have the right body language.

So when flirting with a girl, you want to lean back and show her that you’re relaxed and comfortable. Avoid fidgeting and “pecking” (constantly leaning toward and away from the woman your talking to, which makes a guy look like a bird pecking at food). Instead keep your body movements calm and controlled. Strong body language will help you look and feel more confident, which is going to make your flirting much more effective.

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Online Dating Advice for Men

Below is some online dating advice for men that you likely won’t see anywhere else. It’s different from most online dating advice for men because it covers both techniques and mindsets that will help you succeed in online dating. Plus, there’s an exercise at the end that will deepen your understanding of what women are looking for online. It can help you truly master online dating.

Make women chase you through online dating

The world of online dating is filled with guys who are desperately seeking out any attractive girl. These guys provide no challenge to women and as a result women find them boring. So if you want to get a girl’s attention online and even get her chasing you, show you’re not like the others. Show her that you’re not willing to settle for any woman ; you’re out there looking for the right woma n. Show her that if a girl is going to win you over, she’s got to be special.

Now this starts before you even begin online dating. Before creating an online dating profile, take the time and figure out exactly what you want in a woman (her personality, hobbies, values, etc).

Once you know what you want in the women you meet online, add some of that information to your online dating profile. List the qualities you want in a woman as well as any “deal breakers ” that you won’t tolerate from women online. (When listing this information in your online dating profile you want to do it in a positive way. If you don’t want girls that flake, don’t say “I hate flakey girls” as that can make you sound bitter. Instead frame it positively, saying something like “I’m looking for a girl with integrity who keeps her word”).

When women see you know what you want and are actively filtering girls out, they’ll view you as a high-value guy. The women you meet online will begin to work for your attention because they know that in order to keep you interested a woman has got to be special.

When meeting a woman online, keep her off the pedestal

One of the most common online dating mistakes guys make is putting a girl on a pedestal. Just because the girl is attractive and mentioned a few things in her profile that really resonated with him he’ll start telling himself how incredible and perfect this girl is. This can cause a few problems with online dating. For one, he may find himself sending a long, rambling, and needy first message declaring how perfect they are for one another (which will creep her out). Or he’ll simply find himself wasting the day, checking his inbox to see if she replied to his message.

To avoid this common online dating trap there’s a few things you can do. Often, just realizing what’s happening and reminding yourself that you don’t actually know anything about her can be enough. If you’re still hung up on her, try ascribing some silly characteristics to her (maybe she has a weird laugh, or an unhealthy obsession with unicorns) just to humanize her.

But always keep in mind that the best thing you can do in these situations is to simply find other women. Whether its finding women online or elsewhere, the more women you meet the less likely you are to get hung up on that one girl.

How to send a first message in online dating

The first message in online dating is really much simpler than most guys make it out to be. Most guys think you need to send an amazing first message to get a woman’s attention. But that’s not the case. You just need to separate yourself from other guys and get a conversation rolling.

Follow these guidelines you’ll be sure to send good first message to girls online:

First, scan her online dating profile and see what jumps out at you. Then look to bring this up in your first message the girl. Showing you actually read her profile (most guys don’t), and that you’re interested in her and not just her looks will help your message stand out.

End your message in a way that compels her to respond. Believe it or not, a simple open ended question like “That’s a cool picture, where was it taken?” or “how’s your day been?” will work. If you want your first message to a girl to have a bit more kick to it, you can always offer her a challenge. For instance if she mentions she’s a dancer in her profile, you can challenge her with “you like to dance? Very well, I challenge you to a dance-off!”

Keep your first message to a girl online short. 2-3 sentences is fine. If you’re feeling talkative, maybe two paragraphs that size. Anything longer looks like you’re trying too hard.

Overall, keep the vibe fun, playful, and light. Just have fun and see if you can get a conversation going.

Meeting up with women online

Don’t make the mistake of thinking that the girls you meet online are going to move things forward for you. If you’re going to meet up with a woman you met online, more than likely you’re going to need to take charge and ask for the number/date yourself.

A good time to ask a girl you met online for her number (or a date) is on the 3rd or 4th message. Having a brief back-and-forth allows you to build attraction and familiarity and increases the odds she’ll say yes. It also shows that you require women to put in a bit of effort before you invite them out (showing that you’re a high-value, selective guy).

Learn more about online dating with a fake profile

If you want to learn more about online dating, a fun thing to do is to set up a fake profile. Get a random picture of an attractive woman, create and online dating profile for her, and watch what happens. You’ll get flooded with emails from guys who are interested.

Flipping through these emails can give you some great online dating advice for men. You can figure out what a good first message looks like, and what kind of messages to avoid. You can even take a look at some of the other guys’ profiles for ideas on how to improve your own.

This exercise will also give you a good insight into what it’s like for women to date online. By understanding a woman’s perspective and experience, you’ll have a better idea of what women are looking for. Then you’ll be able to show women exactly that.

(For a ton more tips on how to meet women online, check out the Pickup Podcast episodes here and here )

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