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Meeting guys can be a stressful part of your life. Sometimes, a new relationship falls right into your lap, whether or not it is a good time. Many people find themselves in the opposite position, however. If you are trying to meet a guy and consider a serious relationship with him, you need to know what you want. This will help you narrow the field of eligible men. Don’t cling to this ideal too rigidly, however, because life isn’t that simple.

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Think about previous relationships. A great way to gauge who you might want to date is by looking at what worked and what didn’t in the past. Think back to what you loved about a guy, and what made you break up. Even if he broke up with you, you may not have agreed with his decision.

  • For example, personality traits that you may pay attention to are previous boyfriends’ neatness, long-term goals, their ability to have a serious conversation, and so on.

Think about your personality. You may love watching James Bond movies and have a crush on him, but in reality you may not be compatible with smooth talking men. Or, you may be attracted to guys who are extremely laid back, but you demand utmost cleanliness and neatness in your apartment. Think about what you can and can’t ‘live with’ – figuratively, but also literally speaking. You may want to eventually spend extended periods of time together.

Look at your best friends. Who you are friends with and who you date are not generally the exact same person. However, your best friends may be a good gauge for what you like in other people. There is, additionally, nothing that says you can’t date people you might otherwise consider your buddy. Take a step back and look at what you do with your best friends, and the parts of their personality that make you want to spend time with them.

Look at past and current roommates. If you are looking for a potential long-term boyfriend, you will sooner or later want to know how you will get along at home. There is no exact formula for what makes great roommates, nor finding the ‘right’ guy. However, think about the behaviors that annoyed you and pleased you the most in previous roommates. [1]

  • For example, if you had to quit rooming with someone whose cat was soiling your clothing, a guy with a dog or cat may not be right for you.
  • A big one for roommates is how messy people are. There seems to be a spectrum between messy and uptight. The messier folks don’t usually appreciate the uptight people, and vice versa. Use past roommates to try to figure out where you are on this scale. Ideally, guys you date will be near you on this scale.

Determine how much spare time you have. Relationships are on another spectrum – between casual and serious. Generally speaking, casual relationships need less of a time commitment than serious ones. If you are secure in your career and want to build lifelong relationships, you will probably want to devote more time to new boyfriends. On the other hand, if you are busy all the time and can’t tend to a serious relationship, your needs are much different.

Think about your life and career goals. Compatibility is much less of an issue in the early phases of a relationship than several years down the road. It is easy to ignore the marriage and baby conversation early on (and even necessary), but you should know what you want. Think about whether you want to settle down anytime soon, and where your career goals might take you.

Check out the local nightlife. This is kind of a cliché first step, but it is still preferred by many. If you want a more casual relationship, involving once a week dinner dates, this is a good place to look. You already know that they enjoy nightlife and meeting new people. The local nightlife is a place where strangers from many different backgrounds converge. Who knows, you may intend only to start a casual relationship and meet someone you want to spend the rest of your life with.

Look where you spend the most time. You and your future boyfriend don’t have to have all the same career goals and hobbies. However, a good place to look for people with similar interests is where you spend your time outside work. This will give you ideas for dates you could go on besides going out to dinner. It is also one way to judge their core beliefs and values.

  • For example, if you spend time at church and with religious groups, meeting someone in those circles is a way to ensure they share your beliefs.
  • If you spend a lot of time rock climbing, you may want to meet others there. Time consuming hobbies can overshadow relationships. If you both enjoy the same things, doing hobbies together will take some of the pressure off the relationship.

Ask close friends and family. If you have had several unsatisfactory relationships in a row, you may want to ask for recommendations. Friends and family may know who they should set you up with better than you. After all, they are capable of evaluating your personality and needs as an outsider. Make sure to approach someone who is not going to set you up with someone they want to see you with rather than who might make you happy.

  • For example, most parents want what is best for their child. However, determine if they are only setting you up with a guy who corresponds to their sociopolitical beliefs, or earns a certain amount of money.

Keep your head up. You meet people in the most unexpected places, in everyday situations. Like ripples in the ocean, many simple conversations come and go without anyone noticing. However, a chance encounter with the right person may reveal enough commonalities to turn this ripple into a real wave. Don’t go to the grocery store today with the intention of meeting Mr. Right, but don’t ignore the people all around you.

  • For example, you might see a regular in your local library reads the same authors that you do. See if he attends any book clubs where you could introduce yourself, or go up to him in the stacks.

Try internet dating. Some people don’t have the luck that others do when it comes to meeting guys in their area. There are a number of internet dating sites that cater to many interests. Many people have had success with internet dating, so you might give it a try. It is a good idea to keep other non-internet options open, even while you have your profile online.

  • Be on the lookout for scams. Unfortunately, there are people throughout the world that prey on the willingness of internet daters to send financial assistance to new boyfriends and girlfriends. Do not send money to someone you have met on the internet. [2]

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After thinking more about wanting Kathy to date, and checking out some other web sites, I decided to call Jan and we spoke for quiet a while. Kathy was out so we could talk freely. I told her that I had thought about this and I would really like it if Kathy would meet a guy and.

TerryLyons

18-21. M 1 Response 0 Oct 25, 2010

Well, it has been over two years since the (ex) g/f and I discussed a mutual interest which very shortly became a fact after the discussion. After being in the hotwife lifestyle and letting her have intimate friends on the side for many years, she expressed the desire of wanting.

ucaneffher

22-25. M 2 Responses 1 Jun 2, 2012

when we met she was 20 and was already dating a guy of 65, she carried on dating him for 5 years until he has to move back to Europe, he passed her onto a close friend of his whom she dated for another 10 years, they went on holiday together every year to St Barts, he got her.

Albert34

36-40. M 1 Response 5 Sep 27, 2015

Over and over I hear my buddies and other men who see my wife say, how safisticated and sexy she looks. She is style and fashion savy and works out everyday. Often people will ask me if she is my second or third wife, which always makes me laugh. I have had many detailed.

lodgedog

51-55. M 11 Responses 8 Dec 11, 2009

My girlfriend Pamela (Pam) and I have been dating for 2 months and we are comfortably in the casual dating stage. My social life began to run into complications when Pam’s best friend Jean, who thinks I am below her best friend. Pam’s family is doing well, even in this economy.

Blacksburgguy

18-21. M 8 Responses 3 Sep 2, 2011

In 2007 my wife and I experienced our first *********. We actually ended up with 4 ********** with our friend Rob. My wife and I got married in October of 2007. She ended up working at the Spokane Airport on a swing shift and my job had me working day shifts. We definitely.

Businessman7

36-40. M 3 Nov 6, 2012

Pam came up to my apartment around 1 AM and she looked very sexy. Her hair was sexily mussed, lip stick gone, and she smelled of cologne, perfume, and *****. I kissed her as she came in and told her she looked beautiful. Her kiss was very hot and she told me that I was tasting.

Blacksburgguy

18-21. M 4 Responses 4 Sep 3, 2011

The other day, my wife informed me that she reconnected on facebook with an old friend from grade school. In the process of their catching up, he invited her out to San Jose with him and he would take her up through Napa Valley and they could do wine tasting and all. They.

Xplor

31-35 1 Response 2 Sep 16, 2010

I confessed my hotwife fantasies to my girfriend around six months ago, I was afraid to tell her for some time and didn’t think she would react favourably. However I could tell by some of her responses and questions that she was actually curious and a little excited by it.

lib66

26-30. M 3 Feb 27, 2010

my boyfriend and I are both 24 and are engaged. we have had an open relationship for the past 2 years and it works great for us. We are taking our time to get married but know we want to do it later. My bf loves hearing about me and what I do when I go out with Jason (the.

hotnblonde7

22-25 3 Responses 12 Nov 5, 2010

Well as you know my wife and I have entered into a lifestyle of me letting her date and be with other men. At this point we had only had *********’s and she dated Tom once. My professional and public life took off like a rocket in 2008. So her dating became kind of null and.

Businessman7

36-40. M 2 Responses 2 Nov 10, 2012

Things have moved very fast for both Kathy and Roger, with the help of their friends Jan and Greg. Roger has played around out side of her ***** and has shot his ***** all over her vulva and used it for lube to make her ***. She was far from fertile at that time. This past.

TerryLyons

18-21. M 1 Response 1 Nov 9, 2010

relationship where my wife openly dates older men (usually 50+). We have been in this kind of relationship for 4 years now, and we have been very happy since we started it, met a lot of people and have a lot of fun. As for descriptions. She is 5′ 3″, 140lbs, cute face with a.

nathul

31-35 4 Sep 27, 2015

My wife has been seeing her special partner now for just over 4 years usually about once a month and they have been trying to get more than one night together for the last year. My wife has wanted to spend the weekend with her boyfriend ever since I suggested more than just an.

barneyRuk

56-60. M 4 Responses 6 May 19, 2013

Kathy had her first “official” date with Roger this past Friday and from what Jan told me, they had a wonderful time and to “help her apartment mate out”, Jan spent Friday night and Saturday morning at her boyfriends apartment so Kathy and Roger would have some where other than a.

TerryLyons

18-21. M 2 Oct 31, 2010

So much has happened since the last time I posted a follow up on the EP. Kathy is no longer a virgin and if I was a betting man, I would put money on by this time next year, Roger and Kathy will be going to Thanksgiving dinner with Roger probably holding a baby seat Kathy gave.

TerryLyons

18-21. M 1 Response 2 Nov 26, 2010

How many of you have a long distance dating relationship? Kathy and I were attending Towson University, near Baltimore. We are both in our third year. This year one of her long time girlfriends convinced her to transfer to the University of Virginia in Richmond. She is studying.

TerryLyons

18-21. M 1 Oct 25, 2010

Little background – dated nearly 10 years. 3 years into our relationship we got into sharing. She started going out with other guys at my encouragement. The lifestyle worked for us, we both liked it. I continued to encourage her and she continued meeting and dating different.

ucaneffher

22-25. M 2 Responses 4 Jan 4, 2013

2009 was a normal year for us. Nobody really caught our eye as far as dating or even really going to bed with. So we spent that year working on our home improvements. Which included building a back deck (The Oasis) and adding a hot tub. We love throwing party’s at our house.

Businessman7

36-40. M 1 Response 1 Jun 12, 2013

I, like many men, am turned on by other men’s interest in my beautiful wife. She used to think it odd and a bit funny but also quite liked the freedom to flirt. Over the years I convinced her that having other men as friends was OK and that I was not at all jealous. Eventually.

barneyRuk

56-60. M 2 Responses 4 Apr 21, 2013

i should start off by saying our marriage started with my wife ******* another man on our honeymoon (see other stories). we had an agreement that she could have sex with others and our marriage has been “cuckold” type of marriage that works for us. My wife started having sex.

jampa59

46-50. M 1 Nov 9, 2010


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It can be difficult to meet new people in a city, more specifically, it can be tough to meet women in a city. It seems that everyone’s post-college go-to spot to mingle with the opposite sex is a bar, nightclub, discotheque, whatever you want to call it. Basically, somewhere that supplies large amounts of alcohol, dim lights, and loud music (which are all factors to help you get laid). But how do you meet women that you may want to ask out (gasp!) on an actual date. There have to be other options between being that creepy guy at a bar that tries to get in bachelorette party dance circle and creating an online dating profile.

We learn from movies and the media that women want to be hit on in cool and unusual places in a romantic and unique way. A lot the time when women do get approached in these places, they are easily creeped out. If you want to meet someone in a unique and fun way, then you have to be suave. You have to be confident, but not cocky. You have to be funny, but not over the top. Most importantly, you have to learn how to read her signals, and then go for it: ask for her digits and ask her out on a date.

Here are some places to pick up women and some tips on how not to be creepy about it.

1. At Happy Hour

Happy Hour can be a great place to meet women. More importantly, it’s a more appropriate setting and time of day to meet a woman at a bar whom you may want to ask out on a date. Happy Hours in every city are crawling with lots of young women. Bros, this is an excellent opportunity to meet many women at once, without coming across as creepy.

If you are also at Happy Hour with a group of your bros, and you spot a group of ladies near you with a similar amount of people, grab your/ their server, and buy them a round of whatever they’ve been ordering. It’s classy and it’s opening the conversation in a non-creepy way. If they’re interested, then they will probably come by and say thank you or maybe buy your round of shots if they’re cool chicks.


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1. Get closer. Then break eye contact just long enough to glance down at his lips. It’s a subtle cue that you’re open to a kiss.

2. Choose a theme song. Play it to pump yourself up while you’re getting ready. Then whenever you hear it when you’re out, it will make you feel good and bold enough to say hi to the hottest of the hotties.

3. Wear dangly earrings. They draw attention to the smooth curves of our neck it’s a classy way to subtly show skin.

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4. Keep gum or Tic Tacs in your purse. “Want one?” is the world’s easiest icebreaker.

5. Take a cue from Taylor Swift. Throw it back to her classic “I’m Only Me When I’m With You” and channel her goofy, fun-loving personality. It’s exactly what guys mean when they say, “Confidence is sexy.”

6. Master the bump-and-flatter. Run into a hottie at a crowded party. Say, “Oh, sorry I become a total klutz around cute guys.” Then just introduce yourself.

7. Make dates spontaneously. Text, “I’m craving a McFlurry. Drop what you’re doing and hit the drive-thru with me. )”

8. Tease him a little. Example: When a cutie you’re talking to first tells you his name, say, “What?” so he has to lean in to repeat himself. Then say, “What?” again with a smile. You’ll break the ice with your playful joke.

9. Practice your technique. Sneak in a little flirting whenever you can, like with your hot waiter. You’ll be amazed how “practice flirting” boosts your confidence when you’re talking to someone you really like.

10. Let a hottie catch you looking at them. When they do, smile it will give them the in to approach you.

11. Be interested. Make a point to show how involved you are in the conversation by asking questions or saying “yeah” and “mmm-hmm.” Without realizing why, they’ll be encouraged to keep talking.

12. Memorize a great joke (or one that’s so bad it’s good). Knowing you can pull it out anytime means you’ll never have an awkward pause in conversation. Plus, if you make someone laugh, you’re totally in,

13. Ask them out “by accident.” Text them “What r u up to tonite?” When they reply, say, “Sorry that was for a friend but yeah, what r u doing?” The tiny diss will make them work harder.

14. Check out their clothes and ask about the sports team, band, or brand on his T-shirt. They’ll notice that you noticed.

15. Spritz perfume on the back of your neck. Your crush will catch your scent when you lean in for a hug.

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16. Be obvious sometimes. Like when you “accidentally” throw your Frisbee toward cuteies in the park, an exaggerated apology lets them know you’re flirting on purpose (and in on the joke).


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7 Things Guys Actually Want to Do on Date Night

When most people picture date night. they think of meals at little French bistros where you hold hands tenderly across a candlelit table and stare deeply into each other’s eyes. You laugh and drink wine. and on the off chance you run out of things to talk about, it’s okay, because you can just fall back into the cavernous, emotional well of excessive eye contact. We’ve been led to believe this is what date night should look like by Hollywood, TV, and the French bistro lobby.

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In reality, date night is a relationship pressure cooker for men. Even if we know the difference between a profiterole and p t (not guaranteed), we work up a sweat trying to be “on” when really what we want is some time off, with you. That’s what these date ideas have in common: They’re relaxing and romantic in a way a 43-page wine list will never be.

Take a sunset walk. Fair warning your guy is not going to seem into this when you suggest it. He’ll be lying on the couch watching SportsCenter with his pants off, and he’ll mutter that it’s too hot out. But you must get him out for that walk. My wife, Karel, sometimes bribes me with ice cream or (and) beer. You see, guys are like dogs: They may seem perfectly content to lie around the airconditioned house, but they actually need to get outside for some fresh air and a chance to stretch their legs. If they don’t, they do the human male equivalent of dogs tearing up couch cushions, which is complaining about politics and writing horrible things in the comments section of Internet stories.

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Have an evening picnic at the public pool. This might sound like a bad idea, because if your guy is anything like me, he hates the public pool. He hates it because: 1. It’s teeming with loud, splashing, hormone-soaked teenagers. 2. There are too many potentially incontinent babies. 3. He’s too busy making sure his own kids aren’t drowning to enjoy himself. 4. He’s sort of embarrassed to take off his shirt in public. These are all great and familiar excuses! But this date idea eliminates almost all of them. The teenagers go home for dinner because teens are hungry and dependent on their parents for food, and babies are tired by 6 p.m. and their parents want them to go to bed. So the pool is empty, the light is a little lower so your guy won’t be as self-conscious about stripping down, and (since it’s date night) you left your kids with the neighbors. When you’re done swimming, you can have a picnic and crack open that box of wine you smuggled in. Getting to share a quiet dinner by the pool with you in your bathing suit after a few cannonballs in the deep end is like air-conditioning for the stressed-out summer man’s soul.

Go to a baseball game. This isn’t like a movie, where you’re sitting next to your partner in silence for two and half hours, nor is it like that fancy, uptight dinner. The pace of baseball lends itself to the natural ebb and flow of hanging out with your guy; you can talk or you can watch the game no matter what, you’re sharing the experience of a lovely day becoming a nice night. That is, unless your husband is the kind of fan who gets invested in games involving a team that is a huge disappointment to the city, the fan base, and the entire concept of baseball (dammit, Phillies). In that case, you’d better find a minor league team, or watch the high school team play, since even if he’s into baseball, he probably won’t boo a bunch of kids.

Send the kids on a sleepover and stay home. It’s so simple. When was the last time you sent all the children in your house away for an evening? Sure, it’s logistically tricky. You might have to call in favors from neighborhood parents or family members. But it will totally be worth it. You don’t have to decide who is drinking and who is driving, you don’t have to dress up, you don’t have to deal with crowds. All you have to do is appreciate a house that contains only two adults. Your home is suddenly transformed into a hotel room with an all-access minibar and your favorite pillow.

Visit a neighborhood you don’t live in. This is a habit I picked up when Karel and I lived in New York City. You have to walk all the time there, so you play “What if we lived here?” You look in people’s windows (everyone in New York is used to this), then you talk about how you’d change the living room and ultimately discuss what you like about what you already have or what you want for your future. Who doesn’t love a game that combines voyeurism with real estate prospecting and home improvement? That said, know your location: If you’re in Texas cattle country and a stranger with a rifle sees you peeking in his window, he might not be interested in how you’re spicing up your marriage by talking about his floor plan.

Play a low-impact lawn sport together. Badminton is a surprisingly satisfying game; it’s got something to do with the sound of the birdie thwacking racket strings. Croquet is good too, if you both can avoid getting all Heathers about it. Then there are games where you have to work together (Hacky Sack, Frisbee); they help you communicate, cooperate, and avoid kicking each other in the face. Also, interacting physically outside is pretty conducive to interacting physically inside later. Blood flow and all that.

Find an outdoor festival. Say you want to go to something called the Cottonwood Arts Festival, but you’re worried your dude will complain. Here’s a tip: Every outdoor fair worth going to has a stand selling sugary fried dough, meat on a stick, and a regional variation of the sausage-and-pepper sandwich. If your guy is like me, he will be excited to go to any gathering if you mention these summer delicacies. Find the stands selling the food as soon as you get there. He can eat while you look at fruitwood salad bowls, and in order to not get separated in the throng of people, you’ll end up holding hands. Everyone will go home satisfied.


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Is It Too Early To Start Online Dating?

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If you’re anything like me, you have your phone with you at all times. If I’m bored even for a second, I log on to Facebook, tweet, or start texting my friends. Let’s face it: we’re all techoholics! Even though we do basically everything online, I always thought of online dating as something older people do. Personally, I would rather just wait and see what happens in my love life, as opposed to trying to find it online. Maybe if I’m a single cat lady when I’m 30, I’ll consider an online dating site, but I’m just not interested yet. Am I being romantic? Or am I narrowing the playing field so much that I could be missing out on lots of awesome guys?

Last week, I was talking to a new friend and she was telling me all about her boyfriend. I admit it, I was a little jealous. He sounded so great and she was so happy in her relationship. When I asked her how they met, she told me she had signed up for Match.com and had met him online right away. Now, six months later, they’re engaged! When I asked her why she joined Match.com, she simply said it was because she hadn’t met any guys she wanted a serious relationship with. Fair enough. The guys I know at my college definitely don’t want anything serious, but I still don’t think I’m ready to join. I mean, haven’t you seen Catfish .

One of Facebook’s latest updates includes “Graph Search,” which lets you narrow down friends or friends of friends that have the same interests as you. I tried to see what guys came up when I entered my criteria (male, likes cats, and Italy) and the results were disappointing. Only three “friends of friends” met that criteria and they were a lot older than me.

What do you think? Is finding love online the way to go or is it best to be left to chance? Let me know in the comments!

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10 Things Guys Shouldn’t Do When Dating a Latina

1. Mispronounce her name. I don’t care if her name is super-hard to pronounce, like Xochitl. If you can’t get her name right, you can’t get her number. You should take the time to learn it, and not just guess how it’s pronounced.

2. Call us “mami.” There’s nothing sexy about having the man you could potentially sleep with call you mom.

3. Neglect her family. When you date a Latina, you date her entire family. So get ready to learn everyone’s birthdays, anniversaries, and ovulation schedules. Si no. they’ll vote you out of the picture.

4. Refuse to learn Spanish or Portuguese. Even if the girl you’re dating doesn’t speak the language that well or that often, chances are her abuelita or tio Neco does, so it’s important that you understand them. Besides, if you don’t know any Spanish, you’re making it too easy for her cousins to convince you that “mamame ” means “pardon me” in Spanish.

5. Be a jealous, controlling d-bag. Forget what you’ve heard, most Latinas do not put up with lame machistas. even if the media convinces you that we are obedient and submissive to our men. If you want someone who’ll obey you, get a dog.

6. Ask her to call you papi. It’s like what Maury says: “You are NOT the father,” so stop asking her call you dad.

7. Ask her to choose between you and her mother. Oh, it’s cute that you think you have a shot in hell at winning. Latinas are ride or die for their mamis (and it works both ways), so you’ll always lose that battle. If you have an issue, talk to your girlfriend about it, and you can work through it together.

8. Decline abuelita’s food. In Latino culture, turning down someone’s food is the same as spitting in their face. Don’t spit in your girlfriend’s grandmother’s face.

9. Blame our “Latin temper” for anything. “Latin tempers” are a stereotype. If you messed up and we get mad, take responsibility.

10. Introduce her as your [insert ethnicity here] girlfriend. Introducing her as your Puerto Rican girlfriend is a quick and easy way to become her ex-boyfriend.

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Why Do Some Hot Women Date Fat Guys?

This week’s letter comes from a good-looking man who wants to know why sexy ladies are choosing flabby guys over him and his muscles.

reader’s question

I’m a good-looking, intelligent guy with a great body that I enjoy flaunting at the gym. Needless to say, I enjoy receiving attention and compliments from women without exerting any effort.

What irks me, however, is that I sometimes see couples at the gym in which the women are babes and the guys are “doughboys.” I love the challenge of diverting these particular women’s attention away from their doughboys.

So why would a great-looking woman date a lumpy guy with no class or obvious sex appeal? Is she insecure? Or is she intimidated by male beauty and therefore plays it safe? Why would a woman who takes care of herself want to risk having dumpy-looking kids?

Sometimes I flirt with such women while their men are elsewhere, but I always start to feel sorry for the guys when that happens. One time, a woman even necked with me on an airplane for two hours, and then, upon arrival, introduced me to her husband.

I would certainly consider pursuing such a woman from an attraction standpoint, but if she has the capacity to be disloyal like that, then I would rather not bother.

Bart who would like you to comment

doc love’s answer

Well, you’ve presented some interesting questions, but first I have to take you to task. Something about you seems a bit off kilter, namely: when you say you enjoy “flaunting” your body, you sound like a chick.

If I were to look up the definition of “narcissist” in the dictionary, I know I’d find something like this: 1) A person who is excessively fascinated with his or her own appearance, and 2) A picture of Bart.

Get over yourself and learn what it takes to succeed with women.

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