San Antonio Natural Hormone Therapy Clinic #natural #hormone #therapy, #natural #hormones, #hormone #replacement, #bio-identical #hormone #replacement #therapy, #bio-identical #doctor #san #antonio, #san #antonio #hormone #replacement #doctor, #menopause, #men #hormone #replacement, #women #hormone #replacement, #pre-menopausal #woman, #post- #menopausal #woman, #decreased #libido, #hair #loss, #performance #enhancement



For years, women have coped with menopause through hormone replacement strategies that addressed the problem instead of the patient. Recently, hormone replacement therapy has been refined so that current therapies are tailored and delivered directly to the patient. Dr. Neera Bhatia is pleased to offer one such therapy, BioTE, that is at the forefront of this design process. BioTE is widely regarded as one of the superior bio-identical hormone replacement therapies available.

Dr. Bhatia’s mission statement includes a focus on incorporating innovations that further patient welfare into her practice. With this commitment in mind, Dr. Bhatia is the ideal physician to guide patients through the process of bio-identical hormone replacement therapy. Through nearly 35 years in practice, Dr. Bhatia has seen the approach to hormone replacement therapy develop. Now, there is a solution for patients that she fully endorses and promotes – BioTE pellets.

Briefly, bio-identical hormones are plant derived and biologically engineered to match the patient’s own hormones. These hormones represent the most recent advancement in hormone replacement therapy and represents a solution for both women and men.

Dr. Neera Bhatia talks about the newest addition of Hormone Therapy to her practice and how it will help benefit you.
View Video

Dr. Bhatia is a longstanding female OBGYN whose clinic offers Bio-Identical Replacement Therapy for men and women. Call 210.222.2694 for more information.

Latest News

Russian Singles Woman #single #females

#russian singles


Russia Singles

Russian Women

Russia Singles Tours

Welcome to our online flower and gift delivery service. Choose the romantic gift for your special one and place your order on our secure web site and we take care of the rest.
Wherever you are in the world, ordering gifts is easy, fast and convenient.
We are experienced for providing a gift and flowers delivery service to more than 100 cities all over the world. Also we can make photo-on-delivery in the cities marked by . This new service let you see the moment of surprise and joy when your flowers and gifts are delivered to the recipient.

0,83 Mb
You will find a perfect lady

W elcome to Russia Singles. one of the leading Russian dating agencies specializing in introducing European and American men to beautiful Russian Women from Moscow, Saint-Petersburg, Volgograd, Vladivostok, Omsk, Penza, Khabarovsk, Perm, Tomsk, Ufa and other Rissian Cities.

We have over 30,000 Russian Women who want to become Russian brides.

We pride ourselves on the service we provide to clients.

We try to supply a complete service. including a very fast email and translation service for corresponding with the Russian Women on this site.
Should you wish to meet any of the Russian Women on the site, we can help with Visas and Letters of Invitations, Travel Arrangements, Romance Tours, Accommodation, translators and meeting when it is finally time to meet your chosen one.
Our Socials are invitation only, with the largest women-to-men ratios in the industry, and regarded by the women as the best and most tastefully done.

Start by having a look at some of the ladies from our personal selection Russian Women on the site, our latest additions, or browse through the Russian Women on our service.

We guarantee that ALL of the ladies on our service are ACTIVELY looking for a husband. If you order any addresses from us and the address or telephone number is incorrect or the lady has already found her partner, then we will give you a replacement address free of charge.

All services can be paid for, through our secure server, by Visa, Mastercard, Amex, Cash, Money Order, or Check.
As soon as you have found the Russian Women your interested in, you can immediately retrieve their contact details.Use our email forwarding service, and you’ll could start receiving replies from our Russian Women within the week.

New Jersey Woman Sues Matchmaking Service After Date of Horror – ABC News #free #online #dating #websites

#matchmaking services





Yahoo!-ABC News Network | 2016 ABC News Internet Ventures. All rights reserved.

Woman Sues Matchmaker For Bad Date

Two of Us is a matchmaking service with 15 offices nationwide.

Jeanne McCarthy, 65, thought she would meet a “quality” man when she paid $7,000 for a professional matchmaking service. Instead, she said she got one date with a man with three drunk driving convictions and an outstanding criminal warrant.

McCarthy is suing her local Lawrenceville, N.J. branch of Two of Us. a brick and mortar matchmaking service with 15 offices nationwide. Instead of the online dating services, like eHarmony, Two of Us offers professional matchmakers and “promises to arrange ‘matches’ with another member for the purposes of arranging a dating relationship between those individuals.”

Two of Us “would merely collect a fee from anyone who signed up and would simply match members at random,” the suit states.

McCarthy, a technical writer living in New Jersey, learned of Two of Us through its advertising campaign and went to the local office for a consultation. The advertising stated that the company screens its members and performs a criminal background check, according to McCarthy’s lawsuit, filed on June 4 in the Superior Court of New Jersey in Mercer County.

She said she was told by a representative that “Two of Us would provide quality matches at the rate of one or two during every two-week period.”

McCarthy and her attorney, David Knapp, declined to comment.

McCarthy is suing PMM Inc. which is doing business as Two of Us in Lawrenceville, for breach of contract, fraud and consumer fraud, and requests her money back plus unspecified punitive damages. The suit states Two of Us breached their agreement by failing to “provide one or two matches over a two month period as promised and by failing to adequately evaluate and screen the matches” referred to her.

On Jan. 13, 2011, she signed up for a membership agreement for a non-refundable fee of $7,000. The agreement states, “Two of Us provides for the initial member interview, member testing, background checks and overall evaluation and screening. “

But she said Two of Us provided “only two matches over a five month period which yielded only one date.”

“To her horror, [McCarthy] determined that this one date involved a man with three drunk driving convictions and [an] outstanding criminal warrant in Arizona,” the suit stated.

Her date was a 73-year-old widower from Arizona who told her he received the convictions after his wife died and was moving to New Jersey so he could get a driver’s license, according to The Trentonian.

McCarthy wanted a man 58 to 67 years old with an active lifestyle like her, according to the newspaper.

McCarthy “terminated the agreement and demanded an immediate refund of her fee. Despite repeated requests, [Two of Us] has refused to do so,” the suit states.

Ethan Baker, Two of Us’ vice president of operations and general counsel, said the company has not been served yet and could not comment on the specific allegations of the lawsuit.

“We are providing a service that deals with peoples’ emotions,” he said. “It’s not like you have one product and you can tell if it’s defective. Each person and result varies dramatically. One person may be disappointed with one introduction but the next can lead to a lifetime with someone else.”

Baker said introductions are provided every four to eight weeks on an available basis.

“They’re never told they’re going to get one every two weeks,” Baker said. “That flies in the face of our contract.”

Each Two of Us office is individually owned and operated, according to Baker, but a management company in Glendale, Calif. oversees all offices. Baker said the owners have been in the business of matchmaking for about 23 years.

Basic packages start at about $2,290 for five introductions. The company’s motto is, “Because two is always better than one.”

“We don’t guarantee dates, we guarantee introductions,” Baker said. “After we provide the exchange of information for two members, it’s up to them to talk to each other, set up a date and do what they need to do. That’s clear in the contract as well.”

Baker said there is a “no refund” clause in the “binding” contracts.

“We have thousands of happy members throughout the country who use the service on a daily basis,” Baker said. “We’re a customer service business. That’s the goal of what we do. It doesn’t do us any good if we have unhappy members. We do what we can to make our members happy so that we can all work together toward finding suitable and appropriate introductions for them.”

Baker would not specify the number of clients the company has but said that it has “thousands of members nationwide” and several thousand in New Jersey.

Woman Seeking Man #50 #dating #site

#woman seeking man


Place Your FREE Personal Ad
At Women Seeking Men Now!

Sign up with Woman Seeking Man now and find your match today!

South Africa is the place to be, a country rich in culture and the best place for people to meet. If you are a single man looking to meet an attractive woman, then you don’t need to look any further. Our site will connect you with thousands of single, available and attractive South Africans who are ready to make a connection. South Africa is known for its beauty and warmth and you will feel just that when you browse through the many profiles registered in our database.

If you have tried the conventional ways of meeting people through friends of friends or in busy nightclubs and find that you just end up alone at the end, then don’t waste another minute and get online. It is easy, just sign up and enter your details and in no time, you will be browsing through profiles of beautiful singles that have the same interests as you! The more you add to your profile such as your likes, dislikes and dreams, the better your chances are of making a real and meaningful connection!

Now that you are ready to go, you can meet as many singles as you want. There is no limit to the possibilities of who you could meet! If you are looking for love, friendship, marriage or just someone to share some laughs with, we have what you need. The great thing is that you can search for hot singles all from the comfort of your own computer, so it’s all on your own time. Put away your clubbing clothes and get online with Woman Seeking Man today!

Woman Seeking Man is part of the Online Connections dating network, which includes many other general dating sites. As a member of Woman Seeking Man, your profile will automatically be shown on related general dating sites or to related users in the Online Connections network at no additional charge. For more information on how this works, click here .

Woman Seeking Man. Copyright © 2016 Woman Seeking Man.

Pitbull – Man Seeking Woman – TV Review Man Seeking Woman: “Pitbull” – TV Club – The A #alt #dating

#man seeking women


Man Seeking Woman. “Pitbull”

Today’s Amazon deals: Grown-up wallets, and Reductress ’ great new book

The Price Is Right equivalents of second-tier NFL teams

The Latest From Reviews

Good Girls Revolt falls back on clunky ’60s clichés

The Latest From Videos

Comedian Dave Hill has a book to sell, four seconds at a time

Robbie Fulks covers Freddy Powers

Man Seeking Woman. “Pitbull”

Our Community Grading Tool is in beta. Send Feedback.

Man Seeking Woman ’s heightened universe and format, featuring only a few, longer set pieces each episode, is a high risk, high reward gamble. When a sequence works, it’s spectacular (for example, the fantastic text summit in “Traib” ). When it doesn’t, the episode sputters to a halt. After two episodes of mostly successful conceptual fantasy, “Pitbull” is the show’s first significant misstep, going for disappointingly literal sequences and abandoning the emotional truth that underpins the series’ best moments.

“Pitbull” opens with the episode’s most successful sequence, Josh being interrupted from a planned intimate moment with himself by his right hand, voiced by Sarah Silverman, who just isn’t feeling it anymore. Silverman is great in this brief spot and with the kind of month Josh has been having, it’s not surprising even his hand is ready to leave him. The design of the hand’s eyes and mouth are fun and unlike the later sequences, this one runs just long enough to be effective. Josh and Mike’s night out at the bars (after some pre-gaming, authentic Mexican cuisine, and 10,000-piece puzzle completing) doesn’t work anywhere near as well. Sloppily shotgunning beers feels out of character for Josh, who is far more fastidious with his meal prep, and while the bit improves with each of Josh’s new distractions—bringing back Infinite Jest to be Mike’s breaking point is an admittedly great capper—it never elicits the belly laughs of “Lizard” or “Traib.”

The most tiresome of the episode’s sequences is its final one, as Josh excuses himself from his eagerly gyrating date to head to the bathroom and look for his penis, which has abandoned him after a long evening of drinking. Rather than repeat the approach of the opening and have Josh hold a conversation with the uncooperative portion of his body, the writers try something new and have him frantically call around looking for it. This may be an entertaining premise, but it holds no emotional truth. In “Lizard,” Josh discovered his ex had moved on to a total jerk, Hitler, and none of their mutual friends cared. In “Traib,” Josh was haunted by Maggie’s lingering presence in his life, in the form of her possessions. Here, his body is betraying him, but rather than play with that idea and Josh’s attempts to come up with a solution, we watch strangers rifle through boxes and listen to a bartender fight a pitbull. If the writers were married to this idea, the episode needed to commit to it, to take it to the extremes of the previous episodes’ sequences. As soon as the writers decided not to (or discovered they couldn’t) actually show a penis, talking or otherwise, the entire concept was doomed.

The moment most in keeping with the established tone and approach of the series is Josh and Mike’s conversation about Mike’s spiral eyes, and the reveal that this ability is why Mike is so successful with women and Josh constantly strikes out. Both Jay Baruchel and Eric André are great in this scene, playing it completely straight, and as a way to literalize confidence’s power as an aphrodisiac, it works well. It also removes free will from the equation and turns every woman Mike interacts with into a sex object, and laughs this off. Women aren’t attracted to Mike because he’s cute and fun and confident. They dance with him because he wills it and, the episode argues, if women aren’t responding to Josh, the blank-slate audience surrogate, he should just put the whammy on them like Mike does and take away their ability to say no.

For a series already struggling with gender parity—yes, Liz and Mike operate as equal opposites, both giving terrible advice, but the rest of the women on the series (here, Sarah and Josh’s hookup) are portrayed far less charitably than the men—this is a significant problem. It turns the episode’s strongest fantasy element into its worst and the series’ most disturbing, particularly since unlike Maggie dating Hitler, there’s absolutely no sense that the characters or writers think Mike’s spiral eyes are a bad thing. There’s plenty of space for offensive material in comedy, provided it’s funny. There are nowhere near the laughs in “Pitbull” to make up for its problematic content.

  • Credit where it’s due—Josh and Mike have mad puzzling skills, and having them get recognized by the bouncer is a nice touch.
  • The audio mix in the first bar is great, keeping the likely deafening club music to a polite distance as Josh sits sadly alone.
  • Mike also returning to the bar for his dick is a nice touch that complements his dick pic speech and recantation in “Traib” wonderfully. It’s not enough to make up for the rest of the sequence, but at least the episode ends well.

Share Tweet

More TV Club

Previous episode Man Seeking Woman. “Traib”

Next episode Man Seeking Woman. “Dram”

Luke Cage tries to right itself, return to theme

Strong action and a new teammate elevate a repetitive Legends Of Tomorrow

Better Things ’ fractured Halloween episode is oddly one of its most joyful

After last week’s emotional high, How To Get Away With Murder crashes

Sign up for news

Links and such

Our Partners

How Not to Lose Yourself in Relationships – What You Need to Know #freckle #time #tracking, #lynette #squeaky #fromme #assassinations #crime #political #assassination #charles #manson #dr. #louann #brizendine #beverly #engel #disappearing #woman #syndrome #female #brain #needy #women #loving #him #without #losing #yourself


11 Unexpected Facts About Attraction

  • The 5 Days I Fell Hardest For My Wife

  • 6 Signs Your Partner Is Secretly Unhappy

  • 14 Moments That Make or Break a Relationship

  • Deepak Chopra: How to Live Without Loneliness

  • 5 Things Every Smart, Single Man Is Looking for in a Woman

  • 10 Things You’re Doing That Are Driving Other People Crazy

  • Dating Deal Breakers: 8 Signs We All Overlook

  • 7 Nice Things to Say to Mean, Rude People

  • 6 New Ideas for Getting Better at Love

  • Unexpected Habits That Can Sink a Marriage

  • That Left-Out Feeling

  • 6 (Not Soul-Scorching) Questions to Ask If You’re Still Single

  • 5 Fights Every Couple Has to Have Once

  • Quiz: What’s Your Conflict Style?

  • 4 Questions to Ask Yourself Before You End a Relationship

  • 10 Insanely Nice Things You Can Say to Anybody

  • How to Survive a Rainy Day with Children: A Summer Guide

  • Is It Time to End That Friendship?

  • 5 Things Blissful Couples Do

    Where Did You Go? How Not to Lose Yourself When You Finally Meet Him

    After a fight with her authoritative father, an 18-year-old freckle-faced, redheaded girl is kicked out of her parents Southern California home. While crying on Venice Beach, she meets a man who asks, What s the problem? She hesitates. She knows not to talk to strangers, but she s also intrigued. After just one small conversation, she feels like he knows her thoughts. That he understands what she s going through. That he s on her side. He tells her he s on his way up north to the woods and that she could go with him. She decides to go and live with him; she doesn t know why and doesn t really care.

    A 30-something single, successful woman passionate about her career and active social life meets the man of her dreams. He loves spending every minute he can with her. At least that s what she told her friend at the lunch before she dropped off the face of the earth six months ago. Now, all her time is spent making dinners for her boyfriend, watching his stepdaughter on the weekend while he s playing football with his friends, and not replying to any of her mom s phone calls, her friends e-mails or her colleagues Facebook status updates.

    Do these women sound like anyone you know? Or perhaps, you are the repeat love offender falling hard and fast for a man instead of gradually allowing a relationship into your life. If you feel like you ve lost touch with the woman-you-once-were in your relationship-that-now-is, then you may be familiar with Disappearing Woman Syndrome. Beverly Engel. psychoanalyst and author of Loving Him Without Losing Yourself. describes it as losing track of what you believe in, what you stand for, what s important to you and what makes you happy.

  • How to Get a Date With a Woman #single #date

    #how to date


    How to Get a Date With a Woman

    by Stewart Flaherty

    About Stewart Flaherty

    With a sport psychology master s degree and a successful coaching background, Stewart Flaherty has experience in improving performance in a number of areas. His articles specialize in sport psychology, nutrition and coaching.

    Related Articles

    Men all over the world would like a date with a beautiful woman yet consistently find themselves alone at the end of the night. Fear and doubt are fast lanes to loneliness. Everyone has stress, but conveying your problems to the world on a daily basis is unattractive and will not help you get a date. Give yourself reason to believe you are worthy. Identifying your strengths heightens your ability to get a date.

    Focus on your strengths. It is common to see a beautiful woman highlight her good points, minimizing or even ignoring any flaws. You must do the same with yourself. Identify and emphasize to yourself your strengths. You must know the reasons why a woman would want to date you before anyone else will notice.

    Spread your net. Meeting new people is vital when looking for a date. The idea is not to get a date with the first woman you see, but to interact with women in a variety of social situations. Supermarkets, cafes, bars and fitness classes are good places to meet people. Do not put pressure on yourself; make your focus only to initiate conversation. Merely share light-hearted conversation. If you feel comfortable, you could ask to see her again.

    Ask for a date. Do not be hesitant. You can ask directly or indirectly. An indirect suggestion: My friends and I are going to a bar; I’d like to see you there. Asking casually for her phone number to continue talking can work; you can also suggest a low-key meeting, such as afternoon coffee. No matter how you ask, it is important to convey confidence. Do not talk in a frail voice, look at the ground or fidget. These are all signs of insecurity that women pick up on. Ask with a smile and project positive body language: shoulders back, chin up and good posture.

    View Singles Near You

    It’s Free to Join!

    The 11 Differences Between Dating A Girl And A Woman #black #online #dating

    #date girls


    The 11 Differences Between Dating A Girl And A Woman

    Recently, I wrote a post on “The 11 Differences Between Dating a Boy vs. a Man .” The post can have the genders swapped and most points would still apply. However, we can’t deny that there are some fundamental differences between men and women — from how we are socialized to the chemical and hormonal differences that naturally occur. Thus, I thought it appropriate to follow up with a post on the difference between dating a girl vs. a woman. Again, many points on this post would apply if you switched the genders around.

    A boy is attracted to girls. A man is attracted to women. Now, this has nothing to do with the actual age of a person. I’m referring to maturity, life vision and stage of life. In fact, some people regardless of their age, will never really grow up. Also, this isn’t to say that a woman won’t ever have “girlish” or immature tendencies or vice versa. This post refers to one’s maturity and most points would also apply if you switch the genders as well.

    If you are a boy, then expect that you will attract only girls. However, if you are a man (independent, knows your worth and value, has a strong moral compass, is considerate and an able communicator and doesn’t let insecurity dominate your psyche), then you should be dating a woman. And if you can’t spot the difference just yet, here are some pointers:

    1. A girl throws tantrums. When displeased, upset or angry, she reacts just as she did as a child when she didn’t get her way with her parents. This often consists of screaming, pouting, giving the silent treatment, being passive aggressive and/or punishing. A woman still feels the emotions of being upset/displeased, but has cultivated the skill of responding versus reacting. She comes to the table as an adult, and communicates clearly what is bothering her.

    2. A girl perceives herself as a princess and believes people should treat her like so. She is entitled and feels that she is owed and therefore expects more than she appreciates. A woman, has standards (what she holds herself to) not expectations (what she projects on to others).

    3. A girl uses her physical beauty as her currency and basis of value. A girl may be so used to feeling validated through her looks and sexuality, that she uses this as her primary tool to get what she wants in life. A woman, knows her worth is beyond her physicality. A woman bases her value on her intelligence, her strength, her integrity, her values, her contributions, her humanity.

    4. A girl banks on a man to be her financial strategy. A woman plans to be financially independent — she banks on. herself. And if she so happens to enter a relationship dynamic where it makes sense for her partner to be the primary breadwinner, it’s considered a bonus, not the expected life line.

    5. A girl sees the world from a place of lack and scarcity. She competes and will even tear down another in order to secure resources or a mate. A woman helps other women. She knows that there’s plenty enough to go around and takes the high road of integrity to get what she wants.

    6. A girl cannot be bothered with anything domestic and is proud of the fact that she cannot cook or clean. A woman understands that being domestic is not a duty, but understands that it is one way of taking care of herself and others. She also understands that in the event she wants to create a family, having a person in the household who can contribute domestically is important.

    7. “A girl wants attention, a woman wants respect. A girl wants to be adored by many. A woman wants to be adored by one.” -anonymous

    8. A girl does not respect her body. She has not yet understood that her body and heart are sacred, and that it’s important to be mindful of how she treats it and who she shares it with.

    “A girl cherishes handbags, diamonds and her shoe collection as her prize possessions. A woman cherishes her health, her sense of self, and her talents as her greatest assets.” – N. Mah

    9. A woman takes the time to reflect on the type of human she wants to be, the example she wants to leave and the vision for her life. She has put thought into her values and what she stands for. A girl has not established her moral compass or values and consequently, is often inconsistent.

    “After spending time with a girl, you feel exhausted because she takes more than she gives. After spending time with a woman, you feel invigorated, because she empowers you with possibility, and a passion for life.” – N. Mah

    10. A girl has a checklist that prioritizes superficial qualities above anything else. Here is an example of how this checklist may look: Hot, popular, wears skinny jeans, over six feet tall, rich. This is the checklist of what a woman may look for: High integrity, intelligent, kind, good communicator, emotionally available.

    Now, a lot of these differences require taking the time to know someone to figure out if the apple of your eye is indeed a mature woman, or someone with an immature mindset. However, one of the quickest filters that you can notice from the beginning is this:

    11. A girl plays games. A woman doesn’t.

    Amy Chan is a relationship and lifestyle columnist. To read more of her articles, visit

    Meet the woman who is TOO PRETTY for dating websites #singles #club

    #dating sites


    Meet the woman who is TOO PRETTY for dating websites: Size six blonde thinks it’s easier for unattractive women to find a man online

    By Caroline Mcguire for MailOnline 11:52 GMT 06 Oct 2014, updated 17:40 GMT 06 Oct 2014

    Meet the woman who is TOO PRETTY for dating websites: Size six blonde thinks it’s easier for unattractive women to find a man

    • Paula Jayne Allen, 33, from Essex was often used just as arm candy
    • The mother-of-two believes her good looks make it harder to find a man
    • She only found true love after giving up on shallow dating websites

    Many single women might at some point have thought that losing an extra ten pounds or having a slightly larger chest and blonde curly hair would be the answer to all of their dating problems.

    But imagine if the shoe was on the other foot – if your petite figure, pretty face and long golden locks made it hard to find a man because you are TOO pretty.

    Paula Jayne Allen, 33, from Chelmsford, Essex, says this is what happened to her when she joined an online dating site five years ago.

    She said: ‘I am a size six, with long blonde hair and blue eyes and have done a bit of modelling in the past.

    ‘When it came to trying to find a man who would see me as more than just ‘piece of meat,’ it was so hard. I just felt like eye candy.’

    Scroll down for video

    Paula Jayne Allen from Chelmsford, Essex, who tried dating websites but found her size six figure and blonde hair meant only shallow men approached her.

    Fed up with shallow men approaching her in nightclubs just looking for a one-night stand, Paula tried online dating as a way of finding a man based on a personality match.

    But after reading MailOnline’s interview with size 24 Verity Brown, who has struggled to find a man on dating websites because she is overweight, Paula maintains that it was even harder for her to find a partner on the same sites because men simply saw her as a trophy.

    She said: ‘Verity is thinking that once she has lost this weight, everything will change and all of these men will come out of the woodwork.

    ‘But it doesn’t change, in fact it only gets worse.

    ‘You get all of these men wanting one night stands or who want you to sit there, be quiet and just be arm candy.

    ‘I went on two dating websites – and eHarmony – about five years ago, just before I met my now-husband and it was awful.

    Paula Jayne’s looks have always attracted plenty of attention on nights out

    ‘I decided to try it because all of the sites guarantee to match you up with someone who shares your interests, so it’s more about personality, and I was fed up with all of the men in the bars looking for skirt.

    ‘But it made no difference.

    ‘You’d regularly get people getting in contact just saying, “Fancy meeting up for a f**k?”

    ‘You’d get married men just wanting fun and you’d get people saying, “I just need someone for one night, can you do me a favour?”

    ‘It really was truly awful.’

    Often, Paula also found that men were just interested in using her so that they could impress their friends with a good looking girl on their arm.

    She said: ‘If you did meet people online and then go out for a drink with them away from the websites, they’d take you out to where their mates were and they’d just want you to stand there.

    Paula Jayne struggled to find a decent man in nightclubs, because they were always ‘chasing skirt.’ The mother-of-two thought dating sites would be the answer to her problems but found they attracted similar kinds of men.

    Paula Jayne struggled to find a decent man in nightclubs, because they were always ‘chasing skirt.’ The mother-of-two thought dating sites would be the answer to her problems but found they attracted similar kinds of men.

    ‘If you tried to talk to them and they realised that you have a brain and you actually quite enjoy intelligent conversation, then they wouldn’t want to see you again.

    ‘It was really frustrating and very boring.

    ‘Some of them I’d talk to a couple of times online and then they’d take me out in front of their friends and their male friends would look me up and down and give me the approving look.

    ‘Then their female friends would grab hold of their men and give you the female equivalent of the snarl and you’d think to yourself, ‘I’m really not after your man!’

    ‘It got frustrating, it got disheartening and I gave up.

    ‘I must have been on there for a good six months before I just lost faith and gave up.

    ‘I couldn’t get anywhere on those sites, it was always sleazebags and people who just wanted to use me and didn’t care if I had any opinions on anything or care at all what I thought really.’

    Paula also used to get a constant stream of requests from married men, who would ask her to be their mistress.

    Despite her looks hindering her search for a partner, Paula Jayne refused to change her appearance

    She said: ‘I had married men approach me all of the time saying, ‘My marriage is on the rocks, my wife doesn’t understand me, I’m hoping you will.’

    It’s like, do you really think I will fall for that?

    ‘You get the sob stories, they would constantly email you expecting a reply.

    ‘I replied saying, “Do you think I was born yesterday?”

    ‘They have no shame.’

    But far from sharing her story in order to brag about her good looks, Paula is actually hoping to inspire women like Verity, who are happy about their larger figures, not to change for a man.

    She said: ‘I was reading the article and I thought that she shouldn’t lose weight – it’s not the answer to anything.

    ‘Mr Right will be there whether or not she loses the weight – she shouldn’t have to change that, she should be happy as she is.

    Paula Jayne gave up on dating websites and six months later bumped into her now-husband Mark at a friend’s party. They are now husband and wife

    ‘I didn’t change a thing about me, even though when I was joining these agencies, all of these men were only interested in one thing.

    ‘But I didn’t change anything, I didn’t change my hair colour, my size or anything.

    ‘And I still found my husband at the end of it all.

    ‘Just be yourself, no one should have to change. If you’re truly happy in who you are you shouldn’t have to change a single thing about you, because someone else will love that happiness – it will shine through in everything that you do.’

    Just a few months after giving up on dating sites, Paula met her now-husband Mark and they have been together for four years.

    The couple also share two children Molli-Jayne, who is three next month and William, who turned two years old last week.

    She said: ‘I met my husband about 14 years ago in a nightclub, we dated for about three or four months and eventually broke up because he was quite quiet and I was too outgoing.

    Paula Jayne and her husband Mark with their children William (left) and Molli-Jayne (right)

    ‘But by chance, we happened to bump into each other again ten years down the line.

    ‘I looked him up on Facebook, got in contact, and asked him for a drink and we pretty much haven’t been apart since.

    ‘We fell in love straight away again.’

    Paula is hoping her story will help women who are also struggling to find love to understand that it often has very little to do with something like being overweight.

    She said ‘I know there will be some backlash but I don’t mean any of this in that way.

    ‘I’ve never won awards or used my beauty to get anywhere.

    ‘My best friend is a size 20, but she doesn’t care in the slightest – we’re like little and large – and but she gets more attention than I do because she has so much confidence.

    ‘It doesn’t matter about the size, just whether you are happy in yourself.’

    Dating An Older Woman #dating #games

    #dating older women


    Dating An Older Woman

    Why would any man want to date an older woman? Well, older women are not only more mature, and financially independent, but they re also better lovers and usually won t mess with your head. These are just some of the positive aspects of dating an older woman .

    It is quite typical, almost clich to see an older man with a much younger woman. It has become the standard that men date younger women, but we have yet to accept the idea of a woman dating a man much younger than her.

    I am suggesting a reversal of the standard. It s time that men start realizing the benefits of dating older women. In general, we always complain that women don t know what they want and that they re high maintenance. Well why not change the standard for a while and try dating women that can appreciate real men that are givers instead of takers. Now don t get me wrong, I m not talking about an age difference of twenty-five or forty years. By older women, I m talking about a maximum of maybe ten to twelve years.

    a new experience

    A man in his mid-twenties who dates a woman in her early or mid-thirties will go through an enriching life changing experience. Your average twenty-year-old woman is energetic, ambitious and out to get things done. Now, you take a woman in her thirties, chances are she s lived a little more. She s learned that the world isn t all it was cracked up to be, and she s less likely to be over-enthusiastic about driving twenty miles to go to dance clubs that charge a twenty dollar cover and serve cherry flavored water. This is actually good because most men become lazy when they fall into the hands of a woman.

    Of course, you ll never find a rose without a thorn. This means that in exchange for peace of mind, you have to be willing to accept some of the implications that come with dating an older woman. More often than not, however, the advantages overwhelmingly surpass the drawbacks.

    good things

    Experienced. Older women may not be as toned as they once were and they might not be quite as perky in the various spots they re supposed to be perky in, but it s amazing what an extra ten years of experience can teach you. They don t beat around the bush (they let you do that). They know exactly what they want and they will manipulate you physically and mentally to get it.

    A man is terrible when it comes to taking the time and effort to figure out what a woman really wants. An older woman has learned not to waste precious time waiting for the man in the shining armor to sweep her off her feet. She has accepted that it ain t gonna happen, and she will let you what to do and where to do it.

    Recommended Reading